I Have Decided To Get A Wife From The Philippines

Would she? I don't know. When we first met she said she wanted an international marriage. So she might agree.

I can't attract the kind of woman I want because I am a low value man. That is my problem.

I don't get the last bit. I won't be forthcoming to her or to myself?
Define low value.
 
I'm not sure if I can do that without getting banned again. lol

I am ugly. Not a lot of money. Deformed body. Etc.

Just want to add that beyond my objective shortcomings, I have multiple subjective shortcomings as well. I won't bring them up, as they will be a for sure banning, however they are things that make me less attractive to women in America but only due to the cultural problems of America.
 
Just want to add that beyond my objective shortcomings, I have multiple subjective shortcomings as well. I won't bring them up, as they will be a for sure banning, however they are things that make me less attractive to women in America but only due to the cultural problems of America.
Are you a reliably employed heterosexual white male taxpaying, voting American citizen at least 35 yrs of age?
 
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Maybe it's been asked and I missed it, but....

Why not look for a Filipina (or other woman) who is here legally. I can understand the appeal of looking outside of the country, but you can also find the same type of woman (with the same mentality) already here. it might take a bit more work, but it also removes at least one stigma.
 
Maybe it's been asked and I missed it, but....

Why not look for a Filipina (or other woman) who is here legally. I can understand the appeal of looking outside of the country, but you can also find the same type of woman (with the same mentality) already here. it might take a bit more work, but it also removes at least one stigma.

They wouldn't be interested in me.

I don't care about the stigma, tbh.
 
During my absence from the board I had a lot of time to think about my situation in life and what I must do to improve things and make myself happy. One of the conclusions I came to was that I would be better off in a relationship than being single, so I decided that it was time for me to get married.

After my last proposal failed, I thought about going for an American woman but found my prospects in the States kind of lacking and decided to once again go overseas for love. I joined a FB group matching foreign women with American men and quickly found a willing marriage partner.

She is about 10 years younger than me, which is both good and bad, and she does a lot of the same love bomb stuff these women always seem to do, but she seems to be smart and have her own interests and goals. I know this will be a transactional relationship, and will take steps to protect myself, but I think that is the best option for me to live my best life.

What do you guys think? Big mistake? Best idea Wally has ever had?

I think I'll believe it when I see it
 
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It's so great. People want to change their life and they take action. I think you are on the right way to make yourself happy. Partnership and being together bring so much joy and sence to life. Try checking personality of your potential wife. Compatibility is important to get stable long term relationship. Volikov test gives information on such characteristics. I wish you find the stable and loving partner to be there for you no matter what.
 
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Update

The woman I had been speaking with seems to have disappeared. She had been talking about how her phone was having issues and now I haven't heard from her in a couple of days. Conversation had slowed down substantially once her phone started to break down anyway, so I really shouldn't be surprised. I'm going to see if she comes back, but I'm also going to chat with other women and see who I can meet.

A new woman I've started to speak to is a bit younger, but seems nice. I will see how things go.
 
asi am married to a filipina i can tell you its not as easy as it seems i knew my wife before this i dated her for 2 years and she was from the philippines .her dvice is easy if they start asking for money its a setup for sure also watch for the ones that will come over here get a green card then divorce but if she is really interested in you she will be the greatest thing to ever happen to you .if you want to chat in private hit me up .
 
asi am married to a filipina i can tell you its not as easy as it seems i knew my wife before this i dated her for 2 years and she was from the philippines .her dvice is easy if they start asking for money its a setup for sure also watch for the ones that will come over here get a green card then divorce but if she is really interested in you she will be the greatest thing to ever happen to you .if you want to chat in private hit me up .

Thank you for the response.

How can you tell if someone is only looking for a green card?
 
if they are asking for money before they get here its a dead give away they are using you as for green card that is harder i never had that issue with my wife and we will be married 32 years this month .most of the ladies there are great women and want a better life and a loving husband but you will be marrying into her family also and they dont have small families lol
 
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Eww.. Not Philippines please. They just want to use you or to get your money. I don't really like people from that country because i always have bad experience with them