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just one more thing to add... after anal w/ that girl I was forced to cum in her ass or on her ass but then she started to let me cum on her face afterwards but no ass to mouth though. just had to throw that in there.
 
I was going to weigh in on this one before I started reading what everyone else had to say about it.

Since Jeff seems to be channeling my thoughts on this one, I see no reason to embellish what he's already posted, and will just say, "here, here!"

I guess I'm something of a creampie guy, because the only place I usually care to be when I come is buried as deeply inside a pussy as I can be. Occassionally an oral climax is nice, too...and after reading what Chrysalis had to say about it, I'm tempted to go that route more often! :biggrin1:
 
nismosimo said:
OK, so when did cumming on a womans face become degrading? I mean seriously, if the woman wants it then why is it degrading? Is it b/c you don't like it? BooHoo! Don't do it then. When has any man screamed degrading when a woman got her "juices" on a mans face? Never, that's when. And to the women who like to swallow and take cum anywhere else on the body (besides the face) lighten up. Does your man want to cum on your face? If so, let him. You're taking it everywhere else.
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I agree.

One of my favourite things is to watch a guy masturbate, not touching him at all..no hands, tounge, mouth..nothing. So when i have him cum on my face its because thats how i become part of his pleasure. Most of the time i will have him then feed it to me off his fingers anyway so yes, i still do swallow.

Sure i love givinng a bj just as much as the next girl but to spice it up a little every now and again a facial is a good thing..


Honestly there are women here who like anal, S&M, fisting and all sostr of crazy stuff and people are saying a little innocent cum on your face is a bad thing . I see nothing degrading about it.
 
Chrysalis said:
If my husband's cock is deep in my throat when he's about to cum (which it often is, anymore), he's not about to pull out of that warm, tight, dark embrace into the cold just so he can jizz on my face.

In fact, I'm lucky if he remembers to let go of the back of my head so I can take a breath before I pass out...:rolleyes:

Correct me if I'm wrong, guys, but wouldn't you rather cum with:

Your cock buried deep in a girl's throat
The base of it held snugly between her lips
Her hands on your balls and perineum
Her moaning because she loves swallowing your very essence...

Or would you rather cum with your cock in your own hand so you can shoot it all over somebody?

I'm not a guy, but I suspect the first option would feel better. :smile:
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Whoa baby!!! :love: :flirt: :flowers1: :thanks: Chrysalis I like your style your hubby is a very lucky fella!
 
Just want to clarify that my own aversion to cum facials has nothing whatsoever to do with degradation. I am one of those women who likes anal and other "crazy stuff," and I think people classify far too many things as degrading. My roommate in college wouldn't even do it "doggy style" with her boyfriend because of this supposed degradation issue. I've never felt that way.

To me, real degradation is being called names, being whipped, put in bondage in humiliating positions, being forced to do humiliating stuff...and these are games that some people like to play.

Personally, though, I'm into submission, which is different. I want to be dominated, not degraded.

The only reason I don't like cum facials is that I just don't want a bunch of stuff on my face. I guarantee, though, that if this was something my husband really wanted to do, I would do it for his sake.

However, I've double-checked with him after this thread started, and he is not turned on by the idea. He'd rather cum inside me...somewhere. Whew!
 
My girlfriend likes to get fucked in the mouth and swallows every drop. To her it is a waste to shoot it anywhere else. I dont think a facial is degrading at all. If she wanted me to do this i would.:cool:
 
Maybe I have just been with alot of freaky girls, but I have had many girls allow me to cum on their face and they enjoy it. Maybe because it's a little bit dirty, is the same reason they like it. I think thats why I like it.

And my feeling is that it is only degrating if the girl thinks it's degrating (which some do). And if a girl does not want me to, I absolutely won't. In fact, if they want it on their tits, I will aim across them, so I don't fire it in their face (which would happen).
 
My gf isn't into facials but says she's swallowed before (not me though, sadly - that is she hasn't swallowed my cum, not that I haven't swallowed cum before, and its not a sad thing lol)...

So yeah, her ex used to cum on her tits which she thought just made a mess. I cum inside her now all the time and I love it. My cum doesn't come out either! I don't know where it goes. And she doesn't clean it out or anything so I think maybe subconsciously she wants my babies (see signature). She has a coil however. I like to think its a very intimate thing though if a girl lets you cum inside her. It's what life is about :smile:
On a basic level of course.

I'd maybe only cum in a girl's face if she wanted to but I'm partial to cumming inside.
 
RoyalT said:
I like to think its a very intimate thing though if a girl lets you cum inside her.
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I couldn't agree more.

I also think this notion speaks volumes on the prevalence of facial "money shots" used in most porn...the industry almost invariably shies away from portrayals of sex as an expression of intimacy.
 
I prefer that oral sex be a part of making love. I don't fuck a woman's mouth or throat. I want it when a woman is giving me oral sex that it is intimate. I never have any intention of cumming on a womans face. I prefer to cum in her mouth but only if she is into it. Some aren't. If she doesn't want me to cum in her mouth then vaginal penetration is where it goes, or have had some finish me off with their hands. Most of my experience with oral sex has been it was a part of foreplay before penetration. Yes I had a gf that wanted to try the cum on the face, breast and pubic area. But it wasn't as much fun as what we saw on the porn flick, so it didn't happen anymore. I prefer it to be all about making love. Just me.
 
I don't see this as a debate issue. It's very personal and subjective and really depends on the woman (or man) receiving. I personally have no interest and take no pleasure in degrading anyone. That being said, a "facial" is probably an act of intimacy if the partners are intimate with one another and mutually enjoy the act on one level or another. It is probably "degrading" if there is little or no intimacy between the two involved.

My theory is that the "facial" is a primal act of "marking" or "owning". It is also an effective variation of the "money shot" in porn because of it's obvious visual characteristics. The spectacle value of that visual probably strikes a chord on primal levels with men.

Certain people, men/women find ways of expressing a desire to be "taken down a peg or two." Porn, in all it's modern proliferation, almost therefore by definition, is all about popularizing the methods. Whether in a loving partnership or in porno, there is still certainly some act of psychological catharsis even more than physcial dominance involved here with the woman's face representing the object of the male imperative to penetrate or otherwise tag the impenetrable facade of the feminine gaze; overtaking and, in effect, temporarily altering her normally self-posessed composure, comportment, and personality. In my experience there are some women who enjoy, even initiate it, and some who don't. I've known only two women who ever said they were turned on by seeing certain aspects of it in porn though.

Like with most things sexual here for me, I only find it interesting, erotic, or intimate if my partner does. I bet nobody reads this.
 
:biggrin1: (I too read your post, LaurenceO! Being in Psychology, I found it interesting!)

I really hadn't thought much about the degradation side of the issue. That itself is subjective, ya know- one mans somethin is another mans somethin else- (or woman) just cant remember the quote-
I guess it would only be degrading if the woman thought so. Theres lots of other things I find degrading that have little or nothing to do with sex. And my aversion to it (I would think) would be as I said, fear of it clogging up airways lol- the damned sticky mess in my hair and on my face that I'd have to clean off- and since I generally want more than one go round as it were, I'd not wanna be cleaning up already. I wouldn't feel the intimacy, as mastodon mentioned, it would be missing if he did that I think.
There are lots of intricacies to this topic that I hadn't thought of- I'm really glad you all are so good at replying with thought provoking responses!:smile:
 
First things first, SassySpy, if you are giving thought to the subject then somewhere inside you you are wanting to try it. Do it and get it over with. You will either like it or not like it. Either way, you will never know until you experience it.
Second, I will again ask when did any of this become degrading? If both persons are ok w/ it then there is nothing degrading about anything. Whether it be a facial, S&M, bondage, name calling or whips, physical abuse or whatever the fuck that 2 people want to do between the 2 of them in the privacy of their own bedroom then there is absolutely nothing degrading about it.
It is only degrading if one partner does something against the will of the other or if the other partner makes some sort of stupid remark about what they did to make the other feel like shit. Example, the girl wants a facial, the man cums on her face. Later on the man gets stupid and calls her a dirty slut for doing it or thinks he "owns" her b/c he got to do it.
Third, don't think too much into it. Whatever it is sexual that you want to do/try just do it but make sure you are w/ the person that you trust when you do it. One night stands are not the times to experiment.
One more thing for SassySpy, if you like "another" go at it then take the facial the 2nd or 3rd time. ;-)
 
nismosimo said:
First things first, SassySpy, if you are giving thought to the subject then somewhere inside you you are wanting to try it. Do it and get it over with. You will either like it or not like it. Either way, you will never know until you experience it.
Second, I will again ask when did any of this become degrading? If both persons are ok w/ it then there is nothing degrading about anything. Whether it be a facial, S&M, bondage, name calling or whips, physical abuse or whatever the fuck that 2 people want to do between the 2 of them in the privacy of their own bedroom then there is absolutely nothing degrading about it.
It is only degrading if one partner does something against the will of the other or if the other partner makes some sort of stupid remark about what they did to make the other feel like shit. Example, the girl wants a facial, the man cums on her face. Later on the man gets stupid and calls her a dirty slut for doing it or thinks he "owns" her b/c he got to do it.
Third, don't think too much into it. Whatever it is sexual that you want to do/try just do it but make sure you are w/ the person that you trust when you do it. One night stands are not the times to experiment.
One more thing for SassySpy, if you like "another" go at it then take the facial the 2nd or 3rd time. ;-)
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Oh no, there I draw a firm line. I already KNOW I have no desire to try it- and I don't have to 'experience it' to know that. Additionally, I didn't say it was degrading, I said it had been brought up and I commented on it. Its only degrading if one thinks it so.
And Im quite sure you know I meant another go at sex- I dont even need a first go at a facial, I brought up the topic because I was curious about my own dislike of the thought, and wondered if I was weird.
I dont think anyone on this topic has been passing judgment on anyone else, simply voicing their own, individual opinions- and certainly not making presumptions about anyone else's.
 
SassySpy said:
Oh no, there I draw a firm line. I already KNOW I have no desire to try it- and I don't have to 'experience it' to know that. Additionally, I didn't say it was degrading, I said it had been brought up and I commented on it. Its only degrading if one thinks it so.
And Im quite sure you know I meant another go at sex- I dont even need a first go at a facial, I brought up the topic because I was curious about my own dislike of the thought, and wondered if I was weird.
I dont think anyone on this topic has been passing judgment on anyone else, simply voicing their own, individual opinions- and certainly not making presumptions about anyone else's.
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I am not passing judgment on you or anyone else for that matter. I knew what you meant by going another round too. That's why I suggested you do it after the 1st round. It's cool that you don't want to try it and no you are not weird for disliking it but neither is the other girl for her liking it. When it comes to sex everyone has their own likes and dislikes and that is what makes sex great and special for that person.
 
nismosimo said:
I am not passing judgment on you or anyone else for that matter. I knew what you meant by going another round too. That's why I suggested you do it after the 1st round. It's cool that you don't want to try it and no you are not weird for disliking it but neither is the other girl for her liking it. When it comes to sex everyone has their own likes and dislikes and that is what makes sex great and special for that person.
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:tongue:I absolutely indisputably agree!!:smile:
 
Just to affirm that my objection was mostly aesthetic!

(Refer to previous glazed donut comment)

And I'm certainly not passing judgement on anyone for wanting to do it. It's not as if it's the worst thing in the world anyway. It's more my anal attention to detail gene that prevents it.
 
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