Is being a size queen related to submissiveness at all?

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  1. Charlie14

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    I have noticed that many of the women I have dated who were really into my size were also very submissive and seemed to like dominant men in past relationships as well. Do you feel you fall into this category or is my experience just a fluke?

    Do you think a woman would be into smaller guys if she was more dominant? I did have an experience with an older woman when i was younger who seemed to like to dominate me because of my extreme size as well.. like it was a conquest..

    I am unfamiliar with the whole dominant submissive scene so maybe I am just way over simplifying things.
     
  2. D_Rosalind Mussell

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    I don't see any correlation whatsoever.
     
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    I do fit in that category but I doubt it is a universal concept.
     
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    I don't think so (IMO)
     
  5. Charlie14

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    Anyone here who is submissive how do you feel about pain during sex? Is this related at all?

    Is this why some girls like rough painful sex with a well endowed partner and some girls have no interest in that? Or is that something totally different than submissiveness? More about masochism...
     
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    No way. The idea of "submitting" horrifies me. If anything it's quite the opposite for me.
     
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    I love rough sex very much but I am submissive in all aspects of my life not just sexually.
     
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    Really?!?!?
     
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    Could you elaborate at all please? What do you mean by it being the opposite?
     
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    Just that if anything I'd be way more inclined to be dominant as opposed to submissive.
     
  11. Charlie14

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    Does that mean you would like the guy to be submissive though? Or do you like to both be dominant.. like a grudge fuck lol
     
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    I don't like a guy to be submissive exactly, I can't abide a wet blanket. But I do like a bloke who is prepared to be steered gently in the direction I want him to go.
     
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    yes really
     
  14. Charlie14

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    Would you prefer a younger guy or an older guy or doesn't matter?
     
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    Hmmm well, I suppose if I had to choose I would say slightly younger. But that's as much to do with aesthetics as anything else.
     
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    If you don't mind asking how old are you? 20's 30s 40s?

    If older did you always prefer younger guys or did you ever prefer older?
     
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    Sorry dear, I was'nt responding to your post. I am very happy for you if you are enjoying your new life.
     
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    I'm 37 and the younger man thing is very new for me. Previously I just preferred guys around my own age
     
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    Homework: Go research BDSM. Do not do your research on porn sites.
     
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