Is being well endowed a blessing or a curse?

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Is being well endowed a blessing or a curse?

Well...in my experience...sometimes a blessing...sometimes a curse.


Blessing...you can get some adoration. Power bottoms really like you.

Curse...you can be a stepping stone to other more well-endowed guys. You get hit on by the wrong people. People think that you are aroused when you really aren't. SUPER ADORATION you have people stalking you looking through your bathroom window...more WRONG people wanting to get with you.
 
some times nether....it don't help you get laid all that often....cause if you lead with it you look like a creep....and if ya don't...by the time they find out...well your allready sleeping with them.....

word has gotten around and its opened a few doors...however that gets less and less the more removed you are from high school and college.....hard to believe that most mature adult classy girls dont want to bang their friends ex cause she heard he was big

blessing...being big and good in bed has made quite a few girls happy...and I like to please..

it has also gotten me quite a few second chances when I fuck up in a relationship.....which I am very prone to do.....mainly cause I'm self centered jerk....im working on that...but habits are hard to break and alot of females are enablers

curse...having big dick and able to cum 4 times in a row....over all being great lay....has allowed me to get lazy in the relationship...comunication..availability..infidelity and overall shady behavior

I have come to expect second chance and am shocked when 5th chance is not given

has caused me to lose one girl I ever loved.....years later...id trade all the big dick for her anytime.
 
So being well endowed, and knowing quite a few of my well endowed breteren, I can saw it sometimes CAN be a curse, it all depends on how you approach it. One guy I knew (I'll call him Jim for the sake of argument on here) was a great guy. Very attractive, very nice, and hung close to me (I was longer, he was thicker...and that is THICK). When I first met him, he was shy and a little intimidated to be getting a lot of attention. Two years later he was totally jaded. No one wanted him for any other reason except for his big dick. He never saw people as people any more just someone to fuck. Some five years after that, he was still single, lives in an apartment in a dead end job by himself. Oh and is online every day talking about his dick and how lonely he was. I stopped talking to him it was tooo depressing and he wanted NO advice.

Another guy I knew, hung bigger than me, sweet guy, turned into a total introvert. He shied away from the attention and stopped dating. Last I knew he was single, upset he was single, but would NOT go out at all. Smart, witty, a great guy, HUGE dick, and totally in the closet about his cock. I think he got burned on a relationship that was based ONLY on his cock size.

Last story. One guy I knew who was a total bottom and who was hung similar to me had a problem finding someone to top him. NO matter THEIR size, as soon as they saw him they wanted HIM to fuck THEM. He could not function as a top and it was a total failure. As it was he was thrilled to find me! We kept up a healthy sexual relationship (sex only) for over a year. I have no idea what happened to him then we drifted apart. I hope he found the hung top of his dreams! MAN could that guy btm!

In the end, yes having a big dick is nice, but you have to work with it like any other asset and minimize it in some circumstances.

When I would date for relationships, I would change my profile to just a description of me - nothing about my cock, and NO SEX until date three or four. It weeded out the weirdos. Also though my partner and I can't have sex, size was never an issue (he dated guys MUCH larger than me) and I always appreciated that. LOL - and when he could still have sex, he still loved my size, but it wasn't the driving force behind the sex.

So be who you are, your cock size is just an added bonus. Don't give it away on the first date ;-)
 
IMHO being well endowed is all what you make of it, good, bad or indifferent.
I would lean towards it being a blessing.
 
i asked my boyfriend, who is the hung one of the two of us. His answer was simple. Its a blessing, because I got you :D otherwise, i know it is sometimes frustrating for him, because he attracts a lot of unwanted attention at the gym, and when he wears khakis, and a few pairs of jeans. those are the ones I love :D
 
Maybe their problem is using stupid comparisons such as "Hung as a bear" or "Hung as a rhino". Who the fuck ever says that anyway?
 
When I was in my teens and early 20's, I never realized how important penis size was to men. Neither did I realize that men watch porn to see big penises and compare, too. I thought that real straight men just watched lesbian porn. :eek: I think "big dicks" are more than just props to men. LOL. It's

I can't believe how curious men are to know another man's size, particularly if he's suspected of being well-hung. Even if they say they don't care, or "that's so gay", we all know the truth. That's why "big dick" is one of the most googled sex words, and it's not women typing it in.:eek:
 
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Tight_N_Juicy said:
Is being born female a curse?

We get 'played with' for our physical features all the time.
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I'm sure it's the same for men. I love being complimented for my looks (does't happen often enough), but I'd absolutely hate it if I felt that the only thing about me that interested someone was a physical attribute.
 
Riven650 said:
I'm sure it's the same for men. I love being complimented for my looks (does't happen often enough), but I'd absolutely hate it if I felt that the only thing about me that interested someone was a physical attribute.
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That's my point. Pretty much everyone likes feeling attractive.. but almost no one wants to attract others based solely on looks or physical features.

I don't think it's a curse to be born with a big cock any more than it is to be born a woman with great tits. If anything it's less of a burden because unless you're trying to show off your cock size, most people have no idea how big it is. They can't help but see more than just your dick. For women, our hips-n-tits are pretty hard to hide unless you wear a friggin moo-moo.
 
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Tight_N_Juicy said:
That's my point. Pretty much everyone likes feeling attractive.. but almost no one wants to attract others based solely on looks or physical features.

I don't think it's a curse to be born with a big cock any more than it is to be born a woman with great tits. If anything it's less of a burden because unless you're trying to show off your cock size, most people have no idea how big it is. They can't help but see more than just your dick. For women, our hips-n-tits are pretty hard to hide unless you wear a friggin moo-moo.
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Completely agree T_N_G: A big cock doesn't have to show in everyday life, but big tits are out there in front of you. Takes a lot of confidence to cope with the attention they attract. A frigging moo-moo? I had to look that up. Oh, what an awful garment!
 
It's quite annoying, hearing people say "what a waste, having a big dick as a bottom". Of course, this only comes from other guys that want to take that role. Has only happened to me, while trying to pursue relationships.

On topic, it's both but most of the reasons why have already been stated.
 
For the main its a blessing and you live with yourself. The ones who whine about it being a curse in articles are just playing an attention seeking crock of shit. The whiners are just using it as an excuse to put it out there that they think of themselves as being hung, in the most part these guys arnt even that hung. I would challenge them to find any seriously hung guy who actually wanted to reduce their size.

There's physical aspects you deal with like; certain fitting of clothes, been careful when sitting down on a toilet not to go in the water etc but that's just stuff you live with and go yeah I'm hung so what, its a huge advantage in other aspects of life.
 
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It's been a blessing. I took advantage of the reputation I had and the interest it created, especially when I was younger. I've played and been played. I still like the attention and opportunities it brings. Unwanted advances are easy enough to ignore.
 
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