HungThickProf
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You've been aware of the actions, so it's not cheating. What I will say though is that if it makes you feel uncomfortable, then you need to talk to him about it. I know that people will say that jerking off on cam isn't cheating, but that depends on the rules and the boundaries of your relationship. It sounds like you may need to revisit those rules. If you were comfortable with him masturbating and having an audience and that was understood, then that's one thing. If you weren't aware of him doing one on one cam sessions, and he's starting to do them now, then that's another.
I know that it can be said that since it's the internet, and the person isn't really there, then it's not cheating. And that's bullshit- you're still having a conversation with someone, you're still talking dirty to someone and you're telling them about all of the sexual things you would do to them if you there, or vice versa. You're just not able to touch. Really, it's no different than being in the same room with that person and not touching.
So, to the OP. If you want it to end, then you need to talk to him. Otherwise, you're going to continue to be upset, and who knows, it could lead to him wanting an open relationship or threesomes or orgies (that's more my style, doesn't sound like yours). And if it's something he doesn't want to work out or stop doing, then you may have to think about your relationship and the direction it may be going.
I know that it can be said that since it's the internet, and the person isn't really there, then it's not cheating. And that's bullshit- you're still having a conversation with someone, you're still talking dirty to someone and you're telling them about all of the sexual things you would do to them if you there, or vice versa. You're just not able to touch. Really, it's no different than being in the same room with that person and not touching.
So, to the OP. If you want it to end, then you need to talk to him. Otherwise, you're going to continue to be upset, and who knows, it could lead to him wanting an open relationship or threesomes or orgies (that's more my style, doesn't sound like yours). And if it's something he doesn't want to work out or stop doing, then you may have to think about your relationship and the direction it may be going.