Is Sexting Cheating?

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Incocknito said:
Wrestling with this. Thoughts?

I'm talking about swapping pics with people, with some comments / suggestions back and forth.
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my rule of thumb has always been if you found out your significant other was doing something and it would upset you then you shoudln't be doing it

so according to my rule of thumb if you are ok with your gf sending a dude naked pics and seeing dudes naked then go for it. if her doing that would bother you asssume you doing the same will hurt her
 
Incocknito said:
I thought so. I think so too. But I think I'm accustomed to getting off on people telling me how big my dick is (or how big they think it is).

Only when I'm horny though. It's become my porn. Instead of watching vids I flash my dick to people. No harm no foul?

I mean I could see it being an issue if it lead to sex. But what if it was just sexting.
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BRO, If you need someone to oooh and aah on how big your piece is....show us some pics!!
 
Incocknito said:
Wrestling with this. Thoughts?

I'm talking about swapping pics with people, with some comments / suggestions back and forth.
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If you are in a relationship and your partner doesn't know about it then it is cheating. If they know and frown upon the activity then it's cheating. If they know and don't care then clearly it isn't cheating.

Same thing to an extent when placing pictures of your various body parts on the internet in a place like this. If you are in a relationship and they don't know what you are doing then it's cheating after all showing off your parts to strangers even without a face involved is personal.
 
Tactfulgal said:
Yes. Cheating isn't about the act, it's about the deception. If your S.O. doesn't know about it, and would be upset by it, it's cheating.
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This pretty much nails it, for me.

Check your retarded insecurities and need for constant ego- boosting at the door. Time to grow up a bit.....
 
Incocknito said:
Okay its not so much that I need to. I could probably not do it. But it's so easy to do. And every time I see a pretty girl with a nice cleavage / big tits I get the urge to show her my cock. Sometimes I do, more often than not they respond.

But the right thing to do is seldom the easiest. Right now, I want sex with lots of people. But on the other hand I don't want to be single or secret sexting / etc. I could have a real relationship, I'm easy to fall in love with. But sometimes I just want to fuck some new pussy or try something new.

And so I am conflicted.
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now we're getting someplace. You do it for whatever kick you get back off these women but you also know there are repercussions from what you do. Let's hope these women don't get pissed and post your pic all over the net, it might sound funny but once you hit send you have no control over where those images may end up.



I'm easy to fall in love with - you don't sound it :tongue: not being mean but no way would I put up with the crap you're pulling and I think from the general feedback you've got so far neither would many others (in a bf or partner)
 
Hoss said:
Same thing to an extent when placing pictures of your various body parts on the internet in a place like this. If you are in a relationship and they don't know what you are doing then it's cheating after all showing off your parts to strangers even without a face involved is personal.
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Really? Do other people agree with that? I was under the impression that a lot of the people with cock picks up have significant others, at least some of who weren't ware of their gallery on here.

What does everyone else think?
 
Twistbarbie said:
I'm easy to fall in love with - you don't sound it :tongue: not being mean but no way would I put up with the crap you're pulling and I think from the general feedback you've got so far neither would many others (in a bf or partner)
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The point is my girlfriend doesn't know about any of the "crap" I'm pulling. And everything else about me is loveable.

I'm sure most people must have secrets, or secret 'activities' that their partners would frown on? Nobody's perfect after all.
 
Incocknito said:
Really? Do other people agree with that? I was under the impression that a lot of the people with cock picks up have significant others, at least some of who weren't ware of their gallery on here.

What does everyone else think?
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it will depend on individual relationships, I believe there is a current thread where somoene got dumped because there SO didn't know about posting pics on here.
The same as some people feel it's a breach of trust to discuss issues in their relationship with other people.

I don't believe I've posted anything overly private in my album however, if I am with someone I wouldn't post any more, out of respect for him - he gets to play, the rest of the world doesn't (and yes I know some guys get a kick out of other men oggling their woman, I've yet to be involved with one).
 
I don't know about cheating, but it crosses the line where you are sharing intimacies with someone other than your partner. If you "get off" on positive comments and need it from a place other than your partner, then you need to tell her about it. It is a preference and we all have them, but to not share it with your partner and figure out a way to do it with their knowledge down the line it could lead to bigger problems. Regardless of how it is defined, the thought of me personally finding out that my husband is needing something that I can't give him and he is getting it without telling me, I would be very hurt. For me personally, I always have an easier time knowing and consenting to things rather than stumbling upon the information. Talk to her about it, you might be pleasantly surprised.
 
Incocknito said:
This is interesting, given your situation. Although you have a "full disclosure" policy...

At the moment I'm thinking of either breaking up with her, if sexting turns to sex (before it does), or explaining my sexual needs/masturbation routine with her.

Probably both dick moves but I am not a dick. It's just sometimes (maybe once a week) I get so horny and wanna get some feedback from a new person. Not even have sex with them.

Then I cum and am no longer horny and haven't physically had sex with another person. But I have sexted.

Forgive me Father, for I have sexted :p
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Incocknito said:
Interesting, SugarLove. I don't think I'm misleading her, this is a very new relationship. But I can tell she's attached to me. We'll see how long that lasts
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My lifestyle isn't for everyone. I am a firm believer that every relationship needs honesty. Any couple can do what ever it is as long as they are both on the same page and are comfortable with whatever they do.

If she is attached to you, I am pretty sure that she would be upset if she found out. That's what makes this wrong. It makes no difference if the relationship just started or not.
 
You’re saying there are so many great and loveable qualities about you, but you’re lacking one thing, which is the ability to be in a monogamous relationship and be committed to one person sexually. Just because you consider yourself a great catch doesn’t mean your girlfriend will think so if she found out what you’re doing. You clearly know what you’re doing is wrong, because you’re hiding it from her. Unless your girlfriend is opened minded about you sharing pictures and sexting with other girls, you can be certain it will create insecurities and trust issues in the relationship if she found out.

Instead of trying to find out of what you're doing is cheating, I would find out if an open relationship is what you're looking for, or if you even want to be in one. Do the people who want to be in 1 relationship a favor and stop dating them until you get your dick in control.
 
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