Is sharing a wank cheating?

[257Zero]

What is the limit where communal masturbation become cheating on your partner?

 

[bigandcut]

If it's just 2 guys jacking off and nothing more....I wouldn't call that cheating at all.

 

[257Zero]

that's my general though as well. You might feel thrilled by the moment and maybe attracted by the ”intimate” moment. I never felt guilty but is not the same for everyone

 

[erpap]

Hmmmm it’s a sexual act, maybe no contact. So how would your partner feel if they knew? Just curious. I don’t think jerking off is cheating but I what a partner would think about it.

 

[Gaius89]

If you mean masturbating next to another guy then maybe no, if you mean masturbating a guy while he masturbates you back then yes.

 

[flooble]

What 'cheating' is tends to be slightly different from one relationship to each other, so it really depends on what your agreement with your partner stipulates.

That said, there's a really simple question you can ask yourself: "Am I completely comfortable telling my partner this, without consequences?"

If the answer is no, you're cheating.

 

[bi20sman]

I agree with Flooble. If you can't tell the other person what you did without them thinking you cheated then its cheating.
I don't want to relay on some answer like but I didn't do "whatever" so it was not cheating. Agree on the line before you do anything and then don't cross that line.

 

[LPSG Support]

What 'cheating' is tends to be slightly different from one relationship to each other, so it really depends on what your agreement with your partner stipulates.

That said, there's a really simple question you can ask yourself: "Am I completely comfortable telling my partner this, without consequences?"

If the answer is no, you're cheating.

I agree. There is that question and the flip side to it. "Would I be comfortable if my partner did this to me?"

 

[Mads]

my girlfriend know that i like to cam and masturbate with guys, and maybe irl, she don't think its cheating
But i think many other people would

 

[latinluva]

I always felt that, if someone was at risk of getting pregnant or catching a STD....then it's cheating. If I caught my wife jerkin off another man....I would not consider that cheating!

 

[hzs3fg]

If your primary relationship is with a woman, then one might argue that you were just blowing off some steam with a like-minded guy and hope that your girl is the understanding type.

But, if your primary relationship is with another guy, then I would call it cheating, for sure.

 

[HorseHung40's]

If you feel the need to lie about it, or ask others about it, it is cheating.

 

[Novacouple999]

What is the limit where communal masturbation become cheating on your partner?

If your girlfriend was masturbating with a guy but did not touch, is it cheating?

 

[xxxmystery]

My rule is:
If you wouldn't do it with your mom then its cheating

 

[hairynycstud]

that's my general though as well. You might feel thrilled by the moment and maybe attracted by the ”intimate” moment. I never felt guilty but is not the same for everyone

Its a basic male urge..we are hardwired to fuk jizz breed and BATE! Its not cheating

 

[deleted817718]

My rule is:
If you wouldn't do it with your mom then its cheating

I wouldn't do it with my mom, but maybe with my sister... But that's just me

 

[latinluva]

If your girlfriend was masturbating with a guy but did not touch, is it cheating?

I say no.

 

[1222288]

What is the limit where communal masturbation become cheating on your partner?

Are you.. standing next to a guy at the urinals, look at each other, start to get hard, then start jerking off? Or, in the gym shower, and jerk off beside each other? Are you jerking each other off in some other scenario?

My partner and I don't consider any of those cheating. However, if one of us did that multiple times with the same person, then that is an entirely different matter.

It varies with every couple. Some people are more permissive, some more conservative. Rules and boundaries are really good to establish with whomever you are seeing, so there isn't any confusion.

 

[Mike hutt]

Cheating is another one of those words that has its own personal definition. One says yes other say no. Just stop putting labels on things and just enjoy what makes you happy, as long as your not killing someone, nobody gets hurt...just be happy and enjoy the moments.

 

[BearTough]

What 'cheating' is tends to be slightly different from one relationship to each other, so it really depends on what your agreement with your partner stipulates.

That said, there's a really simple question you can ask yourself: "Am I completely comfortable telling my partner this, without consequences?"

If the answer is no, you're cheating.

It's an odd and discomforting feeling for me right now but nonetheless I for ONCE actually find myself in agreement with you 100%. This is the standard we have in our relationship, we have an understanding of what we are comfortable with and we are open about things. In that vien is not cheating, anything outside of that IS cheating