Nah, it is just common sense. Some people are born with confidence, others have to cultivate it. Confidence is cultivated by success, and success comes from action.
I definitely have confidence it's just my current situation I don't have too much to offer. No job at the moment getting interviewed tomm. No car sold it to help my parents situation. That's why I choose to be single at the moment and once I have my priorities straight I can approach any woman without hesitation. You saying in shouldn't worry about those things and try it anyway?