Is spanking a turn on?

[lambcom]

Many straight porn videos feature the man spanking the naked fanny of his female partner and often not gently. The women in these videos appear to get off on the experience. I know that if I tried to whack my lady hard across her naked fanny while having sex that would be the immediate end of it - and probably for some time to come (no pun intended).

So is being spanked a turn on for you? If so why?

George

 

[deleted781122]

Because it's hot and there is a dom/sub/control aspect to it. The same as all sexual activity

 

[lambcom]

E

Because it's hot and there is a dom/sub/control aspect to it. The same as all sexual activity

excuse me? This channel is entitled "ask a woman". Let's let the women answer, please.

 

[deleted781122]

E

excuse me? This channel is entitled "ask a woman". Let's let the women answer, please.

Excuse me. We are a couple.
You however are a man. Who needs a good a good spanking obviously.
And also has zero experience as an adult.

 

[nailz]

Yes, it's a huge turn-on for me. Not just hands but paddles, flogs, even canes

It's definitely not for everyone though. You can test the waters with a few swats on her butt when she is already highly aroused and see how she reacts

 

[deleted781122]

Yes, it's a huge turn-on for me. Not just hands but paddles, flogs, even canes

It's definitely not for everyone though. You can test the waters with a few swats on her butt when she is already highly aroused and see how she reacts

Agree 100%

 

[AlteredEgo]

I like spanking, generally. I like the surprise, the mild pain, and minor embarrassment.

 

[LaFemme]

Not for me. Immediate end to the festivities. For me, spanking, slapping, choking and all that reminds me too much of abuse I suffered previously. It's just a no-go. I don't judge anyone who's into it, but it triggers bad feelings in me.

 

[950483]

It completely depends on who is doing it. I like some to do it, but not others. If I am not turned on by the idea of a particular person spanking or slapping me it can be for various reasons such as it just feels daft, it feels insulting rather than sexy, they seem awkward about it, or I just don't like something else about the way they do it. It's not a necessity for me luckily. I do like it if and when I like it though.

 

[AsianGal]

It can be.

 

[rtg]

I personally hate it

 

[C41ara]

I don't like slapping or chocking, at all, but spanking can be different, very less violent. It's not something i like to do in general, but during sex, when things are very hot, it can be ok.