J/O buddy - gay or straight?

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I only ever did this once... with another gay guy and it really wasn't a j/o buddy sort of situation. :( I thought it might be, we jacked off while talking about some hot stuff..but I never saw him again and that was in 2003. I can't say I have ever had a j/o buddy although it might be fun.
 

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This is a question for guys who consider themselves mostly straight or totally straight.

If you were looking for a J/O buddy in your area and someone responded, would it matter if they were gay? Or do they have to be str8 or at least bi?

For that matter, are there any straight guys on here who have a gay J/O buddy (meaning it doesn't go beyond just jacking off together)?

For me, it's primarily on Skype or the video room here. It could progress to an in person thing, and I would welcome that provided limits were understood. Otherwise, it doesn't matter.
 
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For me, it's primarily on Skype or the video room here. It could progress to an in person thing, and I would welcome that provided limits were understood. Otherwise, it doesn't matter.
Just wondering what the limits might be (for you and for the other guy). Also what would set the mood for having a real person to JO with?

I ask as a gay guy who has had a number of JO buddies who were gay. We were quick to bond since we had the same motivations even though some guys had never had m/m experience.

What would allow a mostly straight guy to enjoy some form of JO with a guy in the same room? Any idea how you would proceed? And what you would want from the other guy?
 

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No it doesn't matter to me if the J/O bud is gay or straight. I'm not looking for more than a bud to get off with from time to time. I do have to relate to them on some level. Jacking off together is a bonding experience and I honestly have to like the guy to be comfortable enough to watch porn and stroke with him. I'm not meeting in some dark alley to just play with my dick with a total stranger. (okay there was that one time...but never again!) LOL
Well, I have had many JO buds through the years. I am bicurious but one of my regulars I swear he is straight as an arrow and he doesn't mind jerking off with me. Once we were testing my fleshlight, I told him to do some movements with it while I grab the fleshlight still in his dick and showed him. I moved the fleshlight like 5 seconds and said "fuck I'm coming" took the dick out, stood up and came. I haven't seen that he is attracted to dudes. I have known him since we were 15. He grew up in Spain
 

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This is a question for guys who consider themselves mostly straight or totally straight.

If you were looking for a J/O buddy in your area and someone responded, would it matter if they were gay? Or do they have to be str8 or at least bi?

For that matter, are there any straight guys on here who have a gay J/O buddy (meaning it doesn't go beyond just jacking off together)?
Oh yes I have a friend who like to jack off with me in the mornings up at the cottage before his girlfriend get up...