Which part of the UK are you in? I don't know if I'm just being totally aloof because even when guys are staring I'm assuming they're just checking out my workout or something.
Thanks. I was just observing that these group masturbation settings are not the ideal situation for a small guy. Like basketball for a short man. Fortunately, there are other games out there.
I'm definitely a grower rather than a show-er so in a sauna environment maybe my dick wouldn't catch people's eye straight away. It would be worth it for whoever got it hard though, lol. No judgement here but the gay sauna environment is definitely not for me. It feels creepy and dirty to me. Spontaneous gym fuck feels way hotter.
As for dick size...I'm mostly top (90% of the time) but vers. I love a bottom who is hung because it's very visual when it bounces but the guy who who fucked me better than anybody else had a really small dick. I couldn't believe it. I've been with two guys that had enormous cocks [11+] and 2 guys that had small dicks [4-]. The sex was just as good with all of them. Not to ruin my reputation as a sex addicted whore but what it really comes down to is chemistry and passion.
In other words, don't get hung up on your size. One thing I will say is that you shouldn't assume you have to degrade yourself if you have a smaller dick. I've had a few guys fall into that role with me and I don't find it a turn on in the slightest, so I guess not all guys do.
Actually, from my experience (and I've been to jack off clubs many times) I see guys accepting small-wicked guys and treating them respectfully. I think group masturbation IS ideal for this.
Based on my own experience being small at jack off clubs, I wouldn’t discourage small guys from giving them a shot, especially young, fit ones. I’ve had some great experiences there. But it’s a crap shoot. Many other times I’ve felt invisible. Hung guys have a much, much better chance of getting consistent attention, regardless of age or build.
Yeah, this is no doubt true. I like to THINK that small-dicked guys (and not "small-wicked"* as was auto corrected in my previous post!) get the attention they need, but it is true that it can be a crap shoot.
(*I suppose 'small-wicked' would work if you know the use of the word "wick" as "penis," as in the famous phrase from "Shakespeare in Love" at the whorehouse: "You haven't yet dipped your wick!")
In my experience the guys with the big dicks are usually happy to be played with by anyone any size - I am not big but have had a lot of success with big dicks when i am not looking for or expecting reciprocation.
I agree with that. When I go to jackoff clubs, I find I'm most interested in working on other guys, and I usually make a point to at least include one smalldicked guy in my activities. I do this out of a sense of camaraderie
Definitely. Especially bigger gyms. Have had sex in the gym lots of times as it's just a convenient neutral place, has showers etc.
XSport in Merrifield has been good for action ever since it opened 15 years ago. The steam room especially but I've also had sex in the showers and in the private bathroom near the hot tub.
This one is run by the local authority not a branded gym
I do not "enjoy" pity, and I certainly don't feel dominant in that situation. I feel like I'm being kind and supportive to another man, one who, I perceive, is self-conscious but at least has the courage to strip at the jackoff club. Further, I feel like I'm offering him some devotion or even worship as I work him over.
Your response sounds like amateur psychology.
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