We ask others to change the way they act, speak and treat us based on our self identification, yet we have so little respect when it comes to theirs. Disregarding men choice to identify as straight is not less bullying than disregarding the self identification of gay, lesbian, bi, or trans men and women. Profiling men as gay based on their talk, walk, mannerism or how many gay friends they have is not cute. Asking straight identified men 100 times if they are gay is cute. Regarding heterosexual identification as “claims” is not cute. Grow the fuck up.