Wow if only I scrolled up earlier to read this. He just scammed me too today. Stopped reading my messages and is ignoring me after payment. Do not send this man money for his content or customs he will not follow through.Was a fan for a long time. He was very nice. Sexy as hell. Too bad he turned out to be a liar and scammer. He was having financial trouble and asking for help. I helped out because I wanted to. Said he would pay me back. I wasn't really expecting that. Then he started asking for more and more. I would send and little here and there if I could. He would send a vid or a couple pics. Then we were talking and I ran a custom request by him. He was all for it. Gave me a price. Reasonable. I even sent him a little more than he asked because he was sweet and it was worth it. Then ghosted for a while. I called him out on Instagram after several reaching out attempts. He messaged me almost immediately and wanted to "make it right". Offered me more pics. I said u would rather have what we agreed on. If he didn't want to do it anymore fine. Just give me my money back. He sent more pics that you can find on his Twitter. Then said he would get on it. Then ghosted again and called out again. Never anything else. Unfortunate and disappointing. Don't give him money for a "custom" request. I have the messages somewhere still.
I mean it would be difficult to make content if you were going through some thingsUpdate: so after being upset about getting scammed and reading people’s posts here too late, I decided to dig deeper on his socials to see if I could find anything and he posted this year on his OF:
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I don’t actually believe him about this though, since he’s out here scamming, I checked his twitter activity and he be on there liking porn tweets instead of making content himself to make money. Something isn’t right here.
Sorry he did that to you too. Sorry if he's going through that if it's real. Hard to believe anything he says now for me. I had helped out at first with his electric bill. No expectation of payback. He kept begging me on whatsapp to get more here and there either promises of pictures. Like I said just hit him for a custom request. He flirted and said he like that Idea. I sent him over the amount he asked door it then ghosted. Just gave up eventually then found this thread to warn others. This was happening right before or after his breakup. Tried getting my old messages to show on here. May still he on my old phone.Update: so after being upset about getting scammed and reading people’s posts here too late, I decided to dig deeper on his socials to see if I could find anything and he posted this year on his OF:
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I don’t actually believe him about this though, since he’s out here scamming, I checked his twitter activity and he be on there liking porn tweets instead of making content himself to make money. Something isn’t right here.
Thanks for sharing your story. He did the exact same to me as well3/3 sorry if it of order. Doing this from phone. Just definitely wanna warn people about him.
I have to say you really handled yourself impressively. I'm sorry for what happened to you, on both the financial, and I'm sure to some extent, emotional/ "libidinous" fronts, it can be jarring when we are confronted with like, the brutal reality that the people we want are seldom, if ever, the people we want them to be - or in his case, incapable of achieving minimum competencies in what are the most basic of social contracts - but for real you handled that 100x better than I would have and you should be commended I think. I get that people can be overwhelmed by life and struggles . His behavior, and I don't know him personally or virtually, so this is one observer's opinion but he has a textbook "im on drugs" feel to it. That, coupled with easy money he's probably used to, means his human-ness/ humanity kind of gets only about as deep as the path of least resistance. If it's any consolation he probably hates himself.Funny he won't let everybody comment on this particular post.
Thank you. I wanted to do a lot more but he isn't worth it. Whatever he is going through I hope he does better. I was more involved I think because before all the sexual stuff I conversed with him cosplay, video games and nerdy stuff.I have to say you really handled yourself impressively. I'm sorry for what happened to you, on both the financial, and I'm sure to some extent, emotional/ "libidinous" fronts, it can be jarring when we are confronted with like, the brutal reality that the people we want are seldom, if ever, the people we want them to be - or in his case, incapable of achieving minimum competencies in what are the most basic of social contracts - but for real you handled that 100x better than I would have and you should be commended I think. I get that people can be overwhelmed by life and struggles . His behavior, and I don't know him personally or virtually, so this is one observer's opinion but he has a textbook "im on drugs" feel to it. That, coupled with easy money he's probably used to, means his human-ness/ humanity kind of gets only about as deep as the path of least resistance. If it's any consolation he probably hates himself.
I mean there's 2 sides always but he burned that bridge with me lying to me, ghosting me, and immediately contacting me after I tried to call him out then avoided me again after that. I gave him money for an electric bill or so he said. Then some here and there. I don't know. Honesty is always the best policy so they say. Like I said I hope everything goes alright for him.So kevin is homeless and gotten really thin in his last post and would not address his ex's accusation of him. It really getting weird, i want to sympathise to kevin but the others in here are saying he is scamming people left and right. Kevin really needs help , he is a few months before people find him in some alley in Skid's row.
I hope he hits his rock bottom so to say and gets the help he needs. I definitely wouldn't have sent him anything if I knew he was having those types of problems. I know how it Is. My ex was addicted to pain meds and a pathological liar. Thank you for your words.Unfortunately, the man cannot tell the truth to save his life. Literally. He’s completely in denial about his situation and why he’s found himself in this position. His family isn’t homophobic (he just retaliates and accuses for sympathy anytime he’s kicked out) and are waiting for him to admit that he needs the help they’ve been offering him for over a year, he’s just refused any kind of treatment that we’ve told him he needs. His reality is truly warped to where it’s him vs the world, and he continues to take advantage of the dozens of people who love and care for him. He’s burned the bridge in nearly all of his relationships, which is why no one is willing to help him out any longer. I You’re not doing him favors by sending him money, as his unlimited access to money from scamming is what put him here in the first place. He expects his followers to pay for his hotels, his drugs, and his gaming addiction so he can continue to not work while he neglects his dog and feeds him hot and spicy McChickens. It’s not okay.
You don’t need to call him out for lying, this just enrages him. You definitely don’t need to send him money for destroying his own life. All we can do is encourage him to seek the help he needs. It’s not too late, but it will be too late very soon if he doesn’t get help for his addictive personality. He’s neglected his health for a very long time and I’m afraid this cycle will not end until he lands himself in prison. I feel for him because I don’t think he truly has an end goal, and despite his lies and manipulation, there’s a person suffering in his own mind. It doesn’t excuse the damage he’s caused, but hopefully all can be forgiven if he just gets help.