I could accept this with no problems, all the more so because people can remain 'curious' for a long time ... either not investigating what they're curious about, or investigating and not making up one's mind, either through genuine uncertainty or denial.
It might be better to speak of 'leanings' in the secondary direction rather than 'curiosity.'
So then, keeping your five-stage range, you could offer:
1 Straight
2 Straight with bisexual leanings
3 Bisexual
4 Gay with bisexual leanings
5 Gay
Anyway ... a thought, mitchymo.
If Nick8 is satisfied with this then i am satisfied with this:biggrin1:
Apparently you're supposed to go by your sexual history, like what you have done and who you have done.
I defy you to name one instance in which you haven't satisfied me.
1. straight
2. straight-bicurious
3. bisexual
4. gay-bicurious
5. gay
Surely this is enough choice for anyone?
Well I don't want to come accross as a jerk, but this is the most preposterous thing I have ever heard.
I have major issues with the kinsey scale, in fact i loathe that people have adopted it. And before anyone asks me why I have the percentage on my profile, I randomly change it when I feel like it just to fuck with it.
I suppose I am too extreme for society in that I like to think in terms of queerness. As in Queer theory, not queer=gay. Why is sexuality so linear to you guys? There are so many facets to it, so many different intersecting direction that I could never ever fit into any scale. Beyond being fluid, and I agree most with beardedwoof above, sexuality is a prime example of intersectionality. Queer theorists roll in their graves at the mention of the kensey scale.
People! Stop pigeon-holing yourselves and each other! I guess this rant is beyond the scope of a blog, but it bothers me to no end to know people think of their sexuality in terms of numbers, and then whether you like to admit it or not, project it on other... So sad...
Speak up queer theorists on here. Am I the only one to think this way?
As well you should. But, word to the wise: I'll be in your neighb next month. :biggrin1:
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