Recognizing the Kinsey scale of a Korean spa, like all spas or gyms, is the key to peaceful coexistence and will resolve a lot of the tensions around these spaces.
Kinsey scale - Wikipedia
Some Korean spas are primarily straight, such as Wi in LA and King in Chicago. Others are varying degrees of gay, especially once you get into the steam room. Typically, the Kinsey scale culture of a spa results from a conscious marketing decision by the owner / management and can't be changed easily, at least not by the actions of a single patron.
In straight spas the clientele are mostly Kinsey 2, 3, 4, and 5's. Invariably, given the presence of many exposed dicks, there will also be some Kinsey 6's in these straight spas. They will be titillated, but also may be frustrated by the lack of action - which is perplexing given the many gay bathhouse and sex club options. But bottom line - many men who identify as both gay and straight come to these spas in part because they enjoy looking at dicks, but they don't want anything more than that.
Some gay men are perplexed by the the fact that many straight men love looking at dicks. But there is overwhelming evidence that they do. If you need proof, just watch almost any straight porn movie. Why else are there so many big dicks in straight porn? Why else is the money shot the man ejaculating? Also, look at the many men who identify as straight on LPSG. There would be so much less social and internal conflict if we could all just accept the fact that the Kinsey scale is real.
Reading this, some straight man will likely get into a huff and say he doesn't want to see dicks. He just goes to the spa to relax, yada yada yada. I could ask the obvious question of why are you on LPSG, but no bother. You do you. I didn't say all men like looking at dicks. Just most men. KInsey 1's certainly exist, though they are much less prevalent than many of us pretend.
So when you go into a spa and its Kinsey scale point is not to your liking, you could get all outraged. You could stomp your feet and insist that ALL spas should be more like ... whatever it is that you prefer. If you enjoy being outraged, have at it. Alternatively, you could just go somewhere else that's closer to your personal Kinsey score.
But if you're gay in a straight spa, please don't engage in aggressive, open sexual behavior. Take it somewhere else. The many Kinsey 2, 3, 4 and 5's who want to see dick but not gay sex deserve to be allowed to have that space. And if you're straight and don't want to see hard dicks, do some homework about a spa before you go. This forum is a great place to start.
Kinsey scale - Wikipedia
Some Korean spas are primarily straight, such as Wi in LA and King in Chicago. Others are varying degrees of gay, especially once you get into the steam room. Typically, the Kinsey scale culture of a spa results from a conscious marketing decision by the owner / management and can't be changed easily, at least not by the actions of a single patron.
In straight spas the clientele are mostly Kinsey 2, 3, 4, and 5's. Invariably, given the presence of many exposed dicks, there will also be some Kinsey 6's in these straight spas. They will be titillated, but also may be frustrated by the lack of action - which is perplexing given the many gay bathhouse and sex club options. But bottom line - many men who identify as both gay and straight come to these spas in part because they enjoy looking at dicks, but they don't want anything more than that.
Some gay men are perplexed by the the fact that many straight men love looking at dicks. But there is overwhelming evidence that they do. If you need proof, just watch almost any straight porn movie. Why else are there so many big dicks in straight porn? Why else is the money shot the man ejaculating? Also, look at the many men who identify as straight on LPSG. There would be so much less social and internal conflict if we could all just accept the fact that the Kinsey scale is real.
Reading this, some straight man will likely get into a huff and say he doesn't want to see dicks. He just goes to the spa to relax, yada yada yada. I could ask the obvious question of why are you on LPSG, but no bother. You do you. I didn't say all men like looking at dicks. Just most men. KInsey 1's certainly exist, though they are much less prevalent than many of us pretend.
So when you go into a spa and its Kinsey scale point is not to your liking, you could get all outraged. You could stomp your feet and insist that ALL spas should be more like ... whatever it is that you prefer. If you enjoy being outraged, have at it. Alternatively, you could just go somewhere else that's closer to your personal Kinsey score.
But if you're gay in a straight spa, please don't engage in aggressive, open sexual behavior. Take it somewhere else. The many Kinsey 2, 3, 4 and 5's who want to see dick but not gay sex deserve to be allowed to have that space. And if you're straight and don't want to see hard dicks, do some homework about a spa before you go. This forum is a great place to start.
