The term LOLITA is often used for young girls that feel attracted to older men. Its origins are in Nabokov's novel "Lolita", where a mature man marries his landlady in order to get closer to her daughter, (Lolita), and eventually he succeeds in seducing the girl. Are there mature men that feel attracted to really young girls (I don't mean pedophilia) ? Are there young girls that feel attracted to older men? Have you ever had sexual experience with someone much younger or much older? I'm asking you this because I once met a man who was 23 years older than me (I was 18, he was 41) we spent a night together, and I can say it was the best night ever. It was simply incredible. I still dream about him and hope to see him again sometime.