I have been dating a woman for about two years. I am in love with her and want this relationship to grow. My problem is she has had several (too many in my opinion) partners (31) and several have had a larger penis than myself. Our sex life is great and we can make each other have orgasms all the time. I still feel as if she may want more since she has been with men who were larger. Am I crazy or will I get an unwelcoming surprise in the future? Thanks, J
I think you're crazy. I've had just about as many lovers (sorry if you are offended by that), and I don't have a lack of enjoyment during sex if a guy isn't as endowed as previous partners.
If the sex is great, and you both orgasm all the time, then you've answered your own question. Just relax and enjoy your great relationship with a girl that has been with a handful of men, and has now settled on one that she wants.
However many partners she's had in the past is irrelevant to her relationship with you unless she murdered them all and buried them under the patio.
the fragile ego *sigh* rather than being a paranoid wally, look at it this way. she slept with 31 men, so she knows what she likes and she knows how to get it...and what she likes is you! you beat the rest.gold medal. or. dump her and go find a virgin.
Its good to wonder, as long as it doesn`t end up getting to you. She is not with those guys now, her past is of no consequence, but her future is. What is important is how she acts now and if she wants a monogamous relationship.