Lube for anal sex

[Peter Brown II]

Hi woman!

Do you use a other lube for anal sex then for vaginal sex?
Wich lube do you prefer for anal sex?

Grtz PB

(Sorry for my English writing)

 

[AlteredEgo]

Coconut oil. I use something else too, but I'm too lazy to go find out what it is.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Coconut oil is my go-to for so many things.

 

[AlteredEgo]

It's exponentially cheaper than the lube I can't remember the name of, too.

 

[MickeyLee]

Throwing in with coconut oil.

 

[Peter Brown II]

Thnx!
And is the coconut oil real oily or is it more like vaseline? I find different products when i use google.
If you know the product name?
Grtz

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Thnx!
And is the coconut oil real oily or is it more like vaseline? I find different products when i use google.
If you know the product name?
Grtz

At room temperature it's stiff. Once you start working with it your body heat makes it really oily. Not like Vaseline.

You can find it at the grocery store with all the other cooking oils. There are several brands. Just look for 100% coconut oil.

 

[Peter Brown II]

At room temperature it's stiff. Once you start working with it your body heat makes it really oily. Not like Vaseline.

You can find it at the grocery store with all the other cooking oils. There are several brands. Just look for 100% coconut oil.[/QUOTE

Thnx!!!

 

[nailz]

Out of curiosity, how long does buttsex usually last for those of you using coconut oil?
After fifteen minutes or so it seems to just absorb into the skin and then it's suddenly
It's also much harder to clean up than water based, and ends up staining everything.

I like Durex Play or Astroglide Gel. Widely available anywhere, easy to clean up, stays where you put it, lasts a loooong time and is easy to re-apply.
Some flavors of Durex Play (like Ylang Ylang) also smell amazing, but be careful because the smell is so strong you'll start to associate similar scented cosmetics with anal sex

Do you use a other lube for anal sex then for vaginal sex?

Durex Play or Astroglide Gel for anal.
Foreplay for vaginal

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Out of curiosity, how long does buttsex usually last for those of you using coconut oil?
After fifteen minutes or so it seems to just absorb into the skin and then it's suddenly
It's also much harder to clean up than water based, and ends up staining everything.

I like Durex Play or Astroglide Gel. Widely available anywhere, easy to clean up, stays where you put it, lasts a loooong time and is easy to re-apply.
Some flavors of Durex Play (like Ylang Ylang) also smell amazing, but be careful because the smell is so strong you'll start to associate similar scented cosmetics with anal sex



Durex Play or Astroglide Gel for anal.
Foreplay for vaginal

Ylang ylang is a component in a couple desserts I love.
I will avoid lube that smells like the buffet down the street.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Oh, and OP, love your avatar!

 

[MickeyLee]

Reapplication is the secret to coconut oil. We usually scoop a more than you think you need amount out of the container. The coconut oil may absorb into the skin but I've always found it to be soothing and hydrating to very sensitive skin.

Bonus of coconut oil is it's antifungal properties. If your prone to yeast infections from some lubes you really don't have to worry about coconut oil working its way to ya front bottom.

As far as clean up, hot shower and body wash. Any excess absorbs into the skin.

Laundry. Mix cornstarch with a bit of baking soda. Apply to offending area and allow to sit for 30 mins. Wash as usual. The cornstarch absorbs the oil.

 

[MickeyLee]

*laughs at self* anal sex and laundry tips is an awesome name for a band.

 

[nailz]

Reapplication is the secret to coconut oil. We usually scoop a more than you think you need amount out of the container. The coconut oil may absorb into the skin but I've always found it to be soothing and hydrating to very sensitive skin.

Maybe we're just doing something wrong
We're talking about this stuff right?

We tried it, and this is how it usually goes:
I'm laying on my stomach, he scoops a larger amount of the solidified coconut oil out the tub and smears some on his wiener and a little glob of it in my butt.
It immediately melts and starts to run down between my cheeks, into my vag, onto the sheets
What's left just absorbs super quickly into our skin and it's like almost like having anal sex without any lube.

To re-apply, he doesn't want to reach back into the tub with the same hand he just used to smear lube into my butt, so he asks me to. I get a glob from the container and it's a repeat of the same thing again, except now we both have coconut oil on our hands leaving oily handprints everywhere and I have even more coconut oil (now infected with butt germs) running down onto my vag and dripping onto the sheets
If it stayed in it's solid form a little longer it would be fine, but it's just too runny, and almost like using olive oil (which turned into an even bigger disaster even though it's recommended all over the web as an "excellent natural lube").

A water based gel like Durex or Astroglide just squishes neatly and hygienically out of little tube that you can take with you anywhere (imagine packing a tub of coconut oil along with you in summer), stays where it's needed and lasts like an hour before you have to reapply (which just involves squishing another few drops from the tube). Everyone seems to hate them but they're what we keep going back to because they simply do what they're supposed to.

Laundry. Mix cornstarch with a bit of baking soda. Apply to offending area and allow to sit for 30 mins. Wash as usual. The cornstarch absorbs the oil.

This is fine if someone has butt sex only on special occasions, but we do it a lot and I can't stand stained sheets. I don't really want to be spot-cleaning and washing all the bedding every other day. And we have a down pillow-top mattress pad under the sheets which is really hard to clean and the oils can actually soak through

 

[Scarletbegonia]

https://goo.gl/images/xeaZzx

Coconut oil in small bowl or ramekin, never cycled back into the kitchen kit.
Thick towel under us. It's usually a good idea no matter what we use.
To take coconut oil on the go, https://goo.gl/images/dmDjNz
Gotoobs.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

And my life is washing oil out of sheets.
Hot water, and don't let them sit (unless you do the cornstarch trick) more than a day.

The difference between letting massage sheets sit and washing them through the day is amazing.
I'm at a spa with wash facilities onsite, and this is after years of working in weekly laundry places.
Our sheets are rarely oil stained.

I'm almost a microfiber convert, but you will get my linen off my cold dead body.

 

[nailz]

And my life is washing oil out of sheets.

nooooooooooooooo
I hate washing huge sheets. They always tangle into a ball in these tiny euro washers and there are no dryers so you have to hang them up inside in winter

 

[nailz]

We actually make zero mess with gel-like lubes like Astroglide gel or Durex Play.

You shouldn't be using numbing lube
Anal shouldn't be painful. Acute pain is your body telling you something is being damaged.
If you need to use numbing lube for anal you should go back to square one and work on foreplay, relaxation, and gentle stretching

 

[nailz]

I don't put it on, he does.
Whatever's left on his hands he usually just rubs on my body

 

[1277255]

Me and mine use Climax brand water based lube or cum. I tend to want anal after I've had vaginal sex and I'm hyped up for more. Having him cum on my butt and sliding in when he's cum covered is great and there's no need for me personally to have more lube added.