Making her first time special

[sabbig]

hit the foreplay, definitely. i'd say be careful of too much cheese, but who am i to say? i lost it in the back of my station wagon at an afterprom party where everyone else (not me) was completely shit faced.

whatever it is that you do, don't do it just for the sake of being able to say that you had candles, and rose petals, and massage oils, and you spent however much money on it. the most important thing is that it is about the two of you, and that you enjoy it. so do whatever it takes for you to have fun and not worry! who cares what other people think?

 

[2322]

Don't forget afterplay as well! Don't just roll over and go to sleep once you feel you're done for the evening. She may be sore after just one round of intercourse so be prepared for that and don't forget her clitoris. Ask her what she likes and ask if you're doing it the way she likes. You want to help her to have an orgasm as well. After you're both done, women love cuddling and caressing, and whispers about how wonderful it was. They don't get a mood-killing release of prolactin like men do right after orgasm so they like coming down gradually. Be an attentive and considerate lover and she'll have a wonderful time.

 

[B_cigarbabe]

Lots of lube. And a speculum. And booze. A case of PBR each oughtta do it, 'cuz if you remember doin' it you didn't really do it.

Although my esteemed friend gives great (read awful!) advice his is more suitable for someone having sex in the alley behind the porno shop!
Anyway lots of lube maybe try k-y's new m/f lube.
Lots of big fat candles are best not the one you'd put on a dinner table! Lavender is very relaxing scent which can be found in candles manufactured today. Try Yankee Candle Co.
Also taking a nice long bubble bath together in lavender scented water will help relax you and make sure all useable parts are squeaky clean!
Do not drink too much although it can lower inhibitions it can also make your dick too soft to use and how traumatic would that be to you? {and her!}
Take your time have dinner take a long walk if possible to digest the meal
come home and run a bath take each others clothes off,kissing all the while. Hop in the tub together ,soak for a while and talk but not about what your going to do unless she wants that.
Have the lube ready on a bedside table you don't want to be fumbling aroound for it! Ask her to suck you if {she wants} and you do her
have her put the lube gently on your cock and slide it home!
Good sex is safe sex!
There you have cigarbabe's steps to have sex for the first time!:biggrin1:
cigarbabe:saevil:

 

[B_cigarbabe]

Don't forget afterplay as well! Don't just roll over and go to sleep once you feel you're done for the evening. She may be sore after just one round of intercourse so be prepared for that and don't forget her clitoris. Ask her what she likes and ask if you're doing it the way she likes. You want to help her to have an orgasm as well. After you're both done, women love cuddling and caressing, and whispers about how wonderful it was. They don't get a mood-killing release of prolactin like men do right after orgasm so they like coming down gradually. Be an attentive and considerate lover and she'll have a wonderful time.

Let me add to jason's post.
Please don't ask her "was it good for you baby?" " How was I"? or any of the lameness men tend to ask when they're insecure. It sucks!
Ask her beforehand to let you know if you're doing something that doesn't feel good to her. Because you're both virgins try a little bit of all
the types of foreplay. I know it will be great for both of you!
Best wishes for great sex!
C.B.:sasmokin:

 

[unique_exposure]

Cigarbabe mentioned lavender candles. A versatile choice.
If you really want soft glowy flickering lighting, get tea lights as well-- go for a bunch and light 30 or more of them.
They are those little mini candles in silver cups- super inexpensive as well. If you have a Pier 1 near you they sell them there as well as most Bath and Body stores.