You have an interesting story to tell. Your call, but could you answer a few questions?
"Sure, no problem answering a few questions."
--Have you known (or known of) other guys with this reaction?
"I’ve never been with another sex partner who’s had a similar reaction. It’s usually me and I was embarrassed at first and tried to control it and would often apologize. I don’t anymore and my sex partners are usually fascinated by it."
--Are you circumcised?
"I am circumcised but you would never know it because I really don’t think the doctor knew what he was doing. My circumcision looks like a trim. When soft I have almost complete coverage and when I’m hard there’s plenty of skin. It’s a little strange when guys can’t figure it out; I think I got the best of both but wish I was left uncut because I think that I was born with my skin and it should be there."
--Is your dick very sensitive for a minute or two after orgasm?
"Yes, my cock is sensitive but not extremely sensitive. You can touch it although I prefer it to be left alone. There’s a fine line that I deal with, some play is ok but if it gets too intense I can spasm or what some call an aftershock and this could go on for a long time."
--Are you quick to get aroused?
"Very quickly. I can get hard in the shower from the water. Kissing and touching my body not just my dick gets me aroused. I can precum sometimes just thinking about sex. My nipples are hard wired to my cock and I can experience extreme arousal from nipple play."
--Have you ever used any kind of anal stimulation while having an orgasm and with what impact?
"No. I’m no stranger to anal and enjoy it but it’s been almost ten years since any penetration."
--Given that you show an 80-20-attraction profile, have you had this kind of reaction during sex with other guys (what kind of sex act)?
"The 80/20 has changed and I’ve been excusive to guys now for the past 4 or 5 years. Since I like receiving oral so much I tend to look for men. I think they are better at it and understand my needs. I currently have one buddy who gives me head at least once a week. He’s mentioned my abdominal muscles contract and release as he works my cock. He says he can feel my body shake as he works on me waits for me to release and go into full tremor. I’d say it’s the oral sex that does it but it’s also happened when I fuck."
--When you JO, do you also have some degree of this overwhelming feeling?
"Yes, most of the time. If I haven’t cum in a couple of days my cock gets very sensitive and a jack-off session will end it an earthquake. Since I shake so much there’s no way I can control where my load goes and it sort of sprays around my body, the floor or all over my bed."
--Do you have any other physical conditions or take any meds that might be associated with the reaction?
"No, I’m pretty healthy. I exercise regularly with cardio, weights, and yoga. I eat well, not a health nut and will not deprive myself of anything."
--Any idea how alcohol consumption would change your sensations?
"I’m not a big drinker these days. Honestly, I don’t know the answer. I know too much alcohol doesn’t work well with me, I can get sloppy so a couple of drinks works. Does it change the sensation? I don’t think so."
--Have you had these sensations most of your life? Medical journals report this kind of reaction occurs in young males before physical orgasm is possible.
"That’s a good question. I think the journals could be right but for me, I think I suppressed it out of fear someone would say something negative. I don’t recall it happening as a young masturbator but I was jacking off all the time and not really thinking about sex. I think it was all about blowing my load; maybe I was in an accelerated mode and making too much. My 20s were different because I became more sexual and experimental. It really wasn’t until my 30s when the crazy shaking started. I’ve been asked if I have epilepsy, having a heart attack and other medical problems."
"The sensation and sensitivity can get out of control and if someone continues to stimulate me I have to ask them to stop. I’ve pushed people off me, rolled out of the bed onto the floor, tried to stand and fallen. Keep in mind the intensity is unpredictable; it can be very mild to out-of-control insanity. It’s also exhausting! I also can’t predict if and when it happens; I’ve had sex when I don’t cum and other times when I can’t stop. There are a lot of factors that contribute to it and much of it depends on who I’m with and my state of mind while I’m having sex."
Hope this is helpful and if you have any further questions just ask; I’ll do the best I can.