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It's seems like alot of people here think if you get a happy ending that you now become gay.
Really? I just read through the thread again and I don't see where anyone said that. Something less than 100% straight perhaps, but not gay. You seem kind of fixated on that idea from the beginning. Can you show us who in the thread has said getting a handjob from a masseur makes you gay?
 
From reading other threads on this site and if I asked my friends I think almost all think it would be gay. I can see why most would think that then again I can see the other side too. When straight dudes go to jail alot of them have sex with men and don't count that as being gay just a part of being in jail. Also some miltary guys that are straight have sex with other dudes when deployed over sea.
 
I got a massage from a gay massage guy and he asked if I wanted a hj in a round about way. Question does he think I am goodlooking or a pro and justs provides this service and asks everyone gay, bi or straight?
 
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I scheduled an appointment for a massage today. I have only had three "massages" ever, and they were explicitly sexual massage with women. This is my first full body massage with a male masseur. He seems legit licensed therapist etc. How do I know or read if anything additionally more can be expected?
 
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What if I do happen to get hard? Would it be inappropriate, can I get in trouble for it?
 
It was fantastic. The experience was very pleasurable for me.


Arrived, greeted, handled all initial aspects. Walks me into massage room. Instructs me to undress (take off shirt, pants, and shoes, makes no mention of socks and underwear, but I take off socks and have no underwear) lay face down on massage table, and cover with sheets. He steps out to allow me time to prep.


I undresses and did as instructed. As I laid face down, I arranged my dick and balls in between my partly spread legs so as to have them visible, and then covered with sheet. I am slightly hard with anticipation.


He knocks and asks if I'm ready before he enters. He comes in, dims the light, and puts on Asian string music with nature sound background.


He uncovers back and proceeds to massage neck, shoulder, arms, back down to glutes. He is very, very diligent covering every part taking his time, slowly, etc. I cannot see anything as my face is down.


he then proceeds to my lower body. He is very careful to drape me with the sheets accordingly to have access to my body being massaged while keeping the rest of me covered. He proceeds with calves, legs, glutes: firs my left side, then the right side.


My physical stages of arousal did vary throughout.


He finished my backside and covers me up. Ask me to turn over. I look forward to now be able to see him while getting the massage, but he takes a warm towel and covers my eyes.


He continues with my front lower body; first right legs and calves, then left. Again he raises my leg each time and ensures to drape me accordingly.


He continues and finishes upper front; torso, chest, shoulders.


So full-hour, full body massage. Very relaxing and enjoyable. So although it was very legit - licensed therapist, local business owner, and community member, I found it very sensual, although it was not sexual, very pleasurable. The very dynamic of being naked with a fully clothed man, touching me so intimately was very bonding. Will be going back.