do some of u enjoy getting erect while getting a massage is it a turn on for the lady to see u hard,
If my schedule allows it, I get a massage every two weeks. I've gone to both men and women for massage and I really think it has something to do with technique as to whether one sex is better at it than the other.
I love getting erect -- probably because I'm really an exhibitionist at heart. Like a couple other posters, I used to always lay on my cock and just leave my nuts exposed when I was on my stomach. A young male therapist (probably early 20s) told me a couple years ago that although it seems "more modest" to do that, the truth was that he (and any other therapist) would see the full monty eventually and that I'd probably enjoy pointing it down since I had something worth showing off. Although I never confessed to any show-off tendencies to this kid (and I don't think I ever really displayed any), he zeroed in on my true nature.
Ever since then, I've pointed it down along my thigh at the start of my massage. I show medium-to-large when soft, but the minute any therapist's hands are on my ass or thighs, I am rock hard. Sometimes (but certainly not always) that has triggered a comment from the therapist. Only once did a female therapist become annoyed and I really think that had more to do with her issues than with my erection. Although I said nothing to acknowledge my erection and did nothing to show it off (repositioning my legs, flexing it so it would pulse), she terminated the massage 25 minutes early. I never even got onto my back. I still haven't figured that one out.
During the past five years of getting massages, I've met several male therapists and two female therapists who would probably qualify as LPSG "admirers". Whether just a comment, or more overt actions like "accidentally" brushing against my cock or spending considerable time massaging around the perineum, they've let it be known that I wasn't the only one having a good time.
And, like rick_c (above), I hate being draped. I figure that I'm there for a massage, not a sheet-folding exercise.