Masturbation & Family Openess

[13788]

jinks: There have been some forums about guilty feelings & masturbation, if penis size is genetic, jack-off buddies, etc... I just had some additional thoughts:

I was just wondering....has anyone ever masturbated with male members of their own family? Brothers...Dad...Uncles...Cousins? Was masturbation/sexuality openly talked about or explored with family members? I know it's a huge taboo in our society, but I still think it probably happens. Any thoughts?

 

[nineboxer]

coming from a single parent family of 2 bros and dad, lotsa cousins and uncles, and being the biggest of them, yes this happened. i did not think it was strange or weird. it was more of a bonding thing which strengthened the relationship. If anyone had similar situations good or bad and would like to discuss the subject further, lets do it by e-mail.
Nineboxer

 

[nirecue]

I did have some masturbation sessions with one of my cousins. We were in early high school, him a year younger than me. We would only see each other a few times a year, but there was usually sleepovers involved. Once time, I had a computer in my room with internet and we watched some porn. Eventually we could tell we both had erections in our shorts, we had found some alcohol sample bottles and downed those so we were also feeling a little looser than usual. We had started rubbing ourselves through our clothes, but at some point he pulled his cock out and then i followed suit. We never touched each other, but we would look at the porn and say to each other what we found hot about it in different scenes. We would do that for a bit, and then stop watching the porn, get naked and sit in front of each other masturbating. It felt really good to share that with someone, it was one of my earliest times sharing a sexual experience with another person. Then we took turns watching the other cum, complimented each other on how hot it was and would go to sleep. After that first time, we both looked forward to sleepovers where we would repeat the procedure many times. We never felt the urge to go further with each other, and we both never really felt like it was gay or anything. And in subsequent years, even when not having a masturbation session like that, we would hit the gym or town pool and be totally cool being naked in front of each other. It was very freeing not to have to worry about holding towels up and being sure to cover up.

In case you were wondering, I am bigger than he is...he is significantly shorter in height than me, but he was in no way small. He was barely shorter and a little thinner in the cock. This was one of the things in my life that showed me I wasn't all that 100% straight as I would later jerk off to the memory of those experiences, as well as be naked in front of guys without worrying that someone would be judging me gay for not covering up etc etc.

My favorite time was actually when i found out him and his friends jerk off in groups a lot. I visited him once out where he lives and he had about 4 friends over. The 6 of us got drunk and got naked watching porn, and took turns cumming in front of the group. I was again the biggest cock in the room, which i was surprised by. There was one other guy I thought for sure had a bigger cock, but i was bigger by a little bit. One of the hardest orgasms i had was that time when i had 5 other naked and hard guys cheering me on. We all woke up the next day, not really even mentioning it or how hot it was...we just went about our day like nothing strange happened.

 

[ronin001]

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[BBCJelqer]

We had an interesting split in my family. The males were very liberal and open, but there was a clear divide between the sexes. I have two older brothers--one by three years and the other by six years. I shared a room with my brother who is three years older until I turned 14. It was nothing for us to be nude around one another--cramming into a bathroom, getting ready for school, running late so one gets in the shower while the other is brushing or shaving, changing to go swim or play basketball, cleaning up after chores, etc. None of that was sexual, it was just life. I grew up in a big family in a small house.

As I look back on the various experiences, even when sexual elements were present, it still wasn't about being sexual. For example, once we got cable, my brother and I would keep watch so that we could see some of the movies on Cinemax late at night. We found my dad's porn stash in the shed, and we would look at the magazines along with some cousins and friends. By this age, I guess starting at 11 for me, I was getting erections, growing hair, and cumming. It was not uncommon to just encounter other hard dicks...it just happened. My brother might be talking to a girl he liked. There's always a strange correlation between a guy making a dominant move on the basketball court and his dick being hard.

Eventually, my brother got a steady girlfriend around the time he turned 15, and they were always around each other, always so touchy feely. I was doig homework one night while my brother was on the phone with his girl, he called my name and when I turned around he had his cock in his hand. Not even fully hard, but it was thick and long and he was waving it around--like eight inches around and probably eight inches long. He thought nothing of it, at least from what I could tell, and it pissed me off--because I wasn't that big!

After that point, the stories and experiences get more explicitly sexual....the jerking off, the guidance, etc. but everything up to that point as just a part of the circumstances of our life. My dad was very free around the house. I always knew about my dad's side from very early on. It just wasn't a big thing. However, there was a clear line between the openness and freedom expressed between the sexes. For example, I've never seen any of my sisters naked. In underwear on occasion is we were running late or things were hurried for some reason, but never casually. This rule did not apply, however, if you were a younger sibling. For example, I have a sister 15 years older than I am who would give me baths....but I was like 3.

 

[ronin001]

I am not sure; but this may be a little shy of being allowed by the TOS,

 

[Freddie53]

Originally posted by nacard01@Apr 21 2005, 11:04 AM
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I could share stories all day on the inhibitions my parents have caused in regards to my sexuality


Nater

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Nater,

Parents have dreams for their children and so many times what they will accept from others, they won't accept from their own children.

Please know that we here at LPSG will support you as much as we can. I am old enough to be your father. So yea, I will joke about you coming and joining the fleshpile and spanking your butt and assorted other things, but in truth, it is all comical. It is all utter nonsense and all of us enjoy the joking because we all have been put down in some way by somebody for something about us sexaully.

But in the serous tone, feel free to write me privately or publically on this post. Pappy, KinkGuy and I are regular posters and we are all about the same age. We will support you all we can. KingGuy has had a time with his family. He has had to endure a lot. So we are here. I know I can speak for the other two as well in saying that we will be mature older men to give emotional support. Then there are regular posters here you age as well who will support you unconditionally.

Good luck to you. Keep us posted on your life. We are here for you. So come join in the fleshpile and let off a little stress in your life.

Freddie

 

[bareamigo]

I have a younger brother and we’ve never jacked off together—I’ve never even seen him hard. He’s seen me jack though when I did it with my cousins. I have three cousins that I jacked off with in 7th and 8th grades. They lived out of town, so it wasn’t often. They all three was older (and wilder) than me so I learned a lot from them. My little brother was only about 8 at the time.

I’ve also jacked off with one of my uncles—he’s only 5 years older than me, and we’re more like cousins than uncle/nephew. One time when I was in college he and I were driving and I told him about some photos I’d posed for and he told me he’d done a bit of porn. It was kinda funny--my uncle is a really well built dude, nice dick, but not hugely well hung—maybe about 7” hard. Given that I don’t exactly have the kind of body anyone would pay to see, my uncle couldn’t figure out why anyone would want me to model for anything—til I pulled out my dick and we had a good laugh and then he pulled out his and we jacked off together in the car while he was driving.

That’s it for the relatives. I had a friend in college, though who told me he jacked with his dad an I totally believe him. He had a cool dad who was pretty young for a dad—at least a lot younger than my dad. They used to do a lot of shit together and I thought it was really cool how close they were. One time when he was still in college, they were on a trip together and I guess it’d been a few days and my buddy was in the motel room alone an thought he had time to jack off. He was spread out on his bed completely nude an well into his routine when his dad walks in. My buddy jumps up and starts to pull on his shorts but the dad says “no, no, no—it’s cool—go ahead—I’ve been horny as hell too”, an before he finishes the sentence he drops trou and his stiffy pops up. My buddy is so embarrassed he wants to crawl under the bed and of course he’s completely lost his hard on. But the dad—now nude--sits on his bed stroking himself and showin—according to my buddy—amazing credentials (my buddy’s hung too). My buddy’s too embarrassed to just sit there watching, so he goes back to stroking himself, tryin—but not succeeding—to look any direction but at his dad’s dick. After that first time, my buddy told me that it made him and his dad even closer. They talked about it and my buddy even admitted to his dad that out of curiosity he had taken a good long look at his dad’s hard cock while he was jackin it. He said that after that, it was like jerkin with a buddy—which kinda made me wonder why he and I had never jerked off together. Anyway, I know that he and his dad beat off together lots of times after that. They used to go on weekend camping trips. My buddy told me his dad turned him on to jackin outdoors. They’d go into the woods—if it was an isolated area maybe a nude hike—and jack. And I know they watched porn together and beat their meat the whole time. As far as I know they never jacked each other or anything like that but it’s like they became totally uninhibited around each other. One time I went over to their house when his mom was out of town. It was after noon and neither one of em had bothered to get dressed yet. The three of us was sittin around the kitchen and the two of them was completely nude. Like I said, I totally believe my buddy.

Gabe

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I am not one to judge, but this kind of wank fodder creeps me out. I do believe it is toeing the line on the ToS. But it's not been deleted yet. So who knows.

 

[jimmyjoejeater]

I have 7 brothers and 4 sisters. Their are 3 sets of twins in my family 2 identical and 1 preternal. I am one of the identical twins. My brother and I shared a bed until we were 13 as did the other sets of twins in my family. From a very early age I remember masturbating with my brother and later having daily sex with him. Our Mom caught us masturbating several times as small children and threatened us that she would paint our penises black if we didn't stop it. I'm not sure why she thought this would frighten us into stopping and it didn't. All it did was cause us to hide it from her.

Now, having 7 brothers we did have some circle jerks. Not with all 7 of them but with 3 others. 2 were the other set of identical twins but we never had sex with them or let them know that we were. It was simply a subject that was never discused with our parents or other siblings. We did get the "talk" around the same time we got seperate beds but it was discribed in very clinical terms. To this day I cannot understand how my parents could be so tight lipped about sex when obviously they had LOTS of it. LOL!

Jimmy

 

[Alley Blue]

Originally posted by jonb@Apr 21 2005, 12:50 AM
Yeah, some experimentation is normal even for straight guys. But once we get to father/son, that's a little too weird.

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Not just a lil weird.......try alot weird......lol.
I mean where does the line get drawn. Does one who gets involved in this continue on with this behaviour when they become adults? Do they stop by dads house after a long stressfull day at work to jerk off with dad..........bringing his favorite cigars in hopes that he'll throw in a blow-job.......maybe even bring the kids along so that they'll understand what fatherly love is all about.....

 

[PonyPete]

My older brother was the one who taught me how to beat off. I never knew anyone considered brothers jacking off together strange before I found LPSG.

 

[DadsAreUs]

This thread is awesome. I, sadly, never had any experiences with cousins and had no brothers. I had one friend that i was madly in love with who, while we never jacked off together, used to have a strange thing going with me. I would stay at his house when my parents travelled. His room was a loft on the top floor of his house. There was no door. One stay lasted three weeks. During this time he would awake before me and take a shower. Then he would come out of the shower and presumably fluff his already sizeable cock. Then he would come to my bed, a mattress on the floor where I pretended to still be asleep, and gently wake me up with his cock waving in my face. I was already awake and hard as a rock. He would go downstairs to get me a cup of coffed and I would jerk off furiously. He would then reappear moments after I came with the coffee. and bring it to my bed.

This routine played out exactly the same every day. At the time I assumed he was unaware of my staring at his cock or my jerking off but years later I realized that he was orchestrating the whole thing and probably watching me jerk off. How could he not notice where my eyes were focused? How could he come in right after I finished every day for three weeks? Impossible. But the whole scenario played out the same way every day without either of us acknowledging it.

 

[eastbaydude]

I grew up with two brothers and a my cousin - all within a total of six years. Our house had three bedrooms and two batrroms so I was always sharing a bedroom with one of them and a bathroom with all of them.

Growing up, we were always nude around each other. It was no big thing growing up and still isn't. Lots of joking, towel snapping, de-pantsing, and teasing - but nothing at all in a sexual way.

We knew we all masturbated and talked and joked about it but never shared it. It wasn't unsual to hear, "Jack, quit playing with yourself get out of the bathroom. I need to get in the shower."

When my mother got pissed off at stained towels, locked bathrrom door, and porn stuffed under the bed, my dad would have THE talk with us. I remember he'd tell us masturbation normal and like picking your nose. We all do it and it's OK as long as you keep it private and clean up after yourself.

I guess they were pretty cool with it all. We all grew up petty normal.

 

[nineboxer]

yes I have. Makes for a very close family

 

[ottosafado]

wish I had one of those experiences ...

 

[KinkGuy]

Originally posted by jonb@Apr 20 2005, 06:36 PM
Yeah, I'm sure Freud would have something to say about wanting to masturbate with your parents.

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But what would he say about a cousin or brother? Don't anyone ask if you don't wanna' know. :evilgrin:

 

[B_DoubleMeatWhopper]

Originally posted by KinkGuy@Apr 21 2005, 12:37 AM
But what would he say about a cousin or brother? Don't anyone ask if you don't wanna' know. :evilgrin:

Okay, yeah ... I've whacked off with my brothers and cousins. In fact, I've whacked off my brothers and cousins. I had always assumed that it was a normal part of growing up. Apparently, not everyone shares that belief.

 

[kurios]

Part of growing up to me. Cousins were part of sex ed

 

[13788]

jinks: That's my view as well -- that it seems a normal part of growing up. I personally never experienced it or experimented (not that I didn't want to do so), but I have heard of many guys that did. So, I just wanted to find out what the astute members of this group had to offer and if it was part of their "growing up" experiences.

Thanks so far for the replies.