Im in love with my str8 bestfriend

[fedeisgayy]

I fantasy about my best friend, i dont know why, we grew together and we're like brothers. Hes so fucking hot but im not in love with him in an emotional way, he also has a girl friend, and im trans so its kinda impossible. One Day while we were on holidays (we were vacationing out of town but in different houses each family) i went to his house and his family welcomed me on the living room telling me he was showering. So i thougt i could smell his under wear when he finished showering if i was Lucky. And i was! I entered the bathroom with 0 hope but behind the Door he HAD forgotten his boxers. I locked the Door and smelled them. They were not stained or super stinky, but i came really fast. I wish they were cummed, as a cum rag. His dick is 17 cm, but i never saw it. I know he does not like having sex buddies or friend with rights and im Just his friend, however i feel some tension between us, what should i do? Any tips on how to have something sexual with him?

 

[dreamer20]

"Im in love with my str8 best friend"​

im not in love with him, he has a girlfriend, does not like having sex buddies and im Just his friend. What should i do? Any tips on how to have something sexual with him?

My first tip is not to make misleading/contradictory thread titles if you want serious replies to your OP
My second tip would be to simply ask him for whatever type of sex you desire. The worst that could happen is he says "No" and ends the friendship.

 

[fedeisgayy]

"Im in love with my str8 best friend"​

My first tip is not to make misleading/contradictory thread titles if you want serious replies to your OP
My second tip would be to simply ask him for whatever type of sex you desire. The worst that could happen is he says "No" and ends the friendship.

I get it but i cant Just go straight in and end my best friendship Just for sex. And how should i title this thread? Does it matters on how much pepole are gonna see it?

 

[38long]

Hm, knowing that he has a girlfriend, so his emotions are being invested somewhere else already, simply ask this question: Do I value his friendship or blunt sex?

 

[fedeisgayy]

Hm, knowing that he has a girlfriend, so his emotions are being invested somewhere else already, simply ask this question: Do I value his friendship or blunt sex?

Its my most valuable friendship. But i would like something more, even as friends it works for me lol. Maybe i should ask something as "shall we watch porn" as a "joke" when we are bored i his house and see what happends

 

[chrissal480]

If he knows you are gay.. maybe you are acting in ways toward him that’s creating the tension ..

If he doesn’t want to have a friends with benefits thing with you then just be friends.. apologize to him saying if made him feel uncomfortable around you ..

As much as we as gay men love cock.. we also need to learn that straight men feel about pussy the same way..

I’ve got friends I’d love to suck off but I understand they have their preferences and they know I have mine..


Friendship isn’t worth losing over sex ..

 

[38long]

Friendship isn’t worth losing over sex ..

Yep, that.

Sincerely, I think the OP is playing with fire. Well, not my business though. There's not much else to say.

 

[chrissal480]

We all do what we want to do.. it’s our choices.. I did joke around and aggrevated a friend of mine until one night he tells me he’d let me suck his cock if I’d shut up ..
Instead of saying no .. I didn’t waste anytime to suck him.. and he didn’t waste any time cumming either .. but after that I didn’t see or hear from him for several weeks..

I went to his place and apologized .. 100 times.. it took time for our friendship to get back to almost normal ..

Then one day he tells me it upset him that I didn’t say no but did want to say it was a great blowjob and one of the girls he’d been with ever swallowed his load..

At times I thought he was kind of hinting g at doing it again but I never fell for it

 

[fedeisgayy]

Thank you all for your time and thoughts, i appreciate it

 

[SourCandles]

It’s natural to develop fantasies, especially about someone familiar and attractive, but it’s really important to keep those fantasies separate from real-life actions, especially when they involve boundaries and consent. Smelling his underwear without his knowledge crosses a line, even if it felt harmless in the moment. He has a girlfriend, doesn’t seem to have expressed romantic or sexual interest in you, and by your own admission doesn’t like casual sexual dynamics. So while there might be tension, acting on it would risk not only your friendship but your integrity. If he ever initiates anything, you can reassess, but chasing something uninvited is more likely to cause hurt. Right now, try to focus on why you feel this strong pull and explore safer, ethical ways to express and understand your desires, maybe even with a therapist. Wanting connection is human, but mutuality matters most.

 

[fedeisgayy]

It’s natural to develop fantasies, especially about someone familiar and attractive, but it’s really important to keep those fantasies separate from real-life actions, especially when they involve boundaries and consent. Smelling his underwear without his knowledge crosses a line, even if it felt harmless in the moment. He has a girlfriend, doesn’t seem to have expressed romantic or sexual interest in you, and by your own admission doesn’t like casual sexual dynamics. So while there might be tension, acting on it would risk not only your friendship but your integrity. If he ever initiates anything, you can reassess, but chasing something uninvited is more likely to cause hurt. Right now, try to focus on why you feel this strong pull and explore safer, ethical ways to express and understand your desires, maybe even with a therapist. Wanting connection is human, but mutuality matters most.

Thank you very much, sometimes its hard to understand and i appreciate your help. I Will reach out for help