sure. but as you may well be aware of, even in the realm of tantra, there are lots of different modalities, teachers and philosophies, much like martial arts or any other endeavor, there are lots of different approaches.
i was worried that people were going to focus on the "Prostate massage" and miss the point, as it seems to be, my point with that was just offering a specific and an arbitrary example as to what's out there. it's not the goal or the focus.
as i say above, i'm just curious with people's experiences with Meetup. Being that this is the LPSG message board, implicit in that, is that it would be of some kind of sexual nature, not just "rock climbing or wind surfing."
and finally, yes, i'm a man with specific interests, preferences and attractions. I didn't realize that was such an oddity. When you post on these boards, as often the case, it goes misunderstood and the true intention of the question is never resolved or answered, it merely just becomes a tangled, snarling string for people to air their personal grievances and offenses.
As stated above, i'm just throwing a friendly line out there about people's experiences if any with Meetup as a form of meeting like-minded people, since I just joined. Whether they be good, bad, etc. Hopefully without any detours of politicizing.