whatireallywant
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No human designed system will ever be perfect but some are definitely more perfect than others. The US has utterly failed in reaching any kind of parity in its health care.
One of my biggest gripes about health care is that a lot of money is spent on useless end of life attempts to prolong life that should no longer be prolonged.
My grandmother collapsed three years ago at a friend's funeral. She was taken to the local hospital and then when they realized how serious her condition was, they airlifted her to a larger hospital.
She told everyone who listened that when it came to her time she did NOT want any heroic actions taken. All that expense meant that she suffered for two more days with a great deal of pain. She was 87 years old.
More was spent on her those last two days than was spent on her health care in her ENTIRE life.
Her wishes were disregarded by the medical system, she was forced to suffer and tens of thousands of dollars were spent to keep her alive for TWO lousy days.
We need to have a serious discussion about end of life treatment.
Sounds like she needed to have a living will. When I was sick 4 years ago, the hospital staff came around to me and asked if I wanted to make out a living will. I was too out of it to think about doing that by that time. After I recovered, I said to one of my friends, "They don't ask that of all the patients, do they? I kind of thought they did when they were asking it, but afterwards, I realized that they don't - that they asked me because they honestly thought I was going to die. Anyway, the thing to do about end of life treatment I would say is to have a living will - get it in writing, rather than just telling people what actions you want the medical staff to take.