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I had the fortune of being drafted near the end of the Viet Nam “conflict” . As soon as I could, I returned to college but continued in the Army Reserve. My reserve unit drew members from the Ohio, West Virginia and Pennsylvania areas. At that time there was a heavy population of Italian guys living in those regions and many gravitated to my unit.

Summer camp with these guys was spent in the Rappahannock Swamp areas just south of Washington DC. I was new to the area and assumed that these folks would be low key, small town, quite types. Was I ever wrong! Once we hit the camp area the first thing these guys did was set up a ten-gallon pot filled with fruit juice and massive amounts of Everclear, and then start drinking. The second thing they (a large majority) did was to take their clothes off – all of their clothes. For the next two weeks they laughed and screamed with each other, played ball, threw Frisbees, lived in communal tents, and boated around in the swamp, totally nude when ever possible. I saw lots of drunks; lots of erections; and lots of guys who really enjoyed just letting it all hang out. I didn’t see any sexual exchanges, but this was back in 1976, so I wouldn’t have expected to. If two guys wandered off in the wood, they didn’t make it pubic. Frankly I don’t think anyone would have cared, but that is just a guess.

Looking back to that experience (and over looking a few drunks and loudmouths) there was something quite wholesome about these two weeks that I can’t quite put my finger on. It wasn’t just the eye candy, or the fact that none of us had any idea what the Army training plan for those two weeks should have been. It didn’t seem deviant at all.

These days when I see guys taking showers with their clothes on or swimming with their paints on, I feel like they are the real deviants and have missed something important in their upbringing. It makes me wonder if we should have allowed the military draft to end without a cultural replacement.


 
When I was in the South African Defence Force, the period was in the 1970s. This was during the apartheid period. Anyone caught messing around with other guys would have been arrested and taken to detention barracks, and would have had reperative therapy..

In my experience there was stuff happening if one knew how to get it and where to look.

I had more than my fair share of encounters, best time of my life.
 
Hi,

I'm so far behind on reading this site, though I love it.

I have a strange situation; I was military, Army, extremely horny and equally paranoid, it was Viet Nam era; only 10 years after our horrible Mc Carthy period.

I received top appointments, embassies, but also of course did a fair amount of garrison duty at Finance Headquarters.

Here's what's strange. I WAS SO INCREDIBLY NEAR-SIGHTED THAT AFTER I GOT OUT THEY SAID I NEVER WOULD HAVE HAD TO HAVE SERVED. I said, i knew that, I am happy it happened.

Truly it changed my life for the better.

But, since, contact lenses were NOT allowed, I always have wondered what I missed: hard-ons in the shower? Did other guys wake up with hard-ons or was I the only one in the history of the army; we all seemed to pull our pants on before standing up.

And, a Vet returning from Iraq told me once, "What happened in the showers of Iraq ....stays in the showers of Iraq" .

I have often wondered about that statement and if it was also going on in 'Nam.....while i was living alone in
quarters, even a monastery once, working embassies.

The best humerous analogy of my situation is: If I were still as near-sighted and without glasses (like in the showers) ...but, touring an art museum of serialist art, I would leave thinking it was a museum of blurred Impressionist paintings.

That is my whole remembrance of the military one big blur of beautiful bodies...some which never came home.

And, I still feel as though I were the only one to ever have had a hard-on in the whole history of the Army.

I love your "sighted" version of reality, of the truth of what I missed.

Thanks !
 
I live near a navy base, so there tend to be a lot of navy guys on the gay networking sites around here. I met a guy who was bi but not out at all, very masculine. Nice toned body. We had a couple of good romps at my place with him topping me.
 
I've hooked up a couple of times with an insanely hot Army guy who immigrated from Russia. He could be a runway model in Milan. He had never been with a guy before. He wore his fatigues when he came the first time and I would have loved him to to have sat and talked to me in his uniform so I could drool, but he was in a hurry. He emails me from his deployment in the Middle East. His cum was intoxicating.
 
Retired Air Force here.... Over my 22-½ years I had lots of m/m play time. Some my age all along sometimes younger and sometimes older... There was always plenty of cock to go around. Although I was never into anal I did top and bottom from time to time.... but my main objective was to be able to suck some hot cock and swallow their hot loads. I served in South East Asia as well as all over the USA and Panama too. I found it was usually easy to determine the ones that would be willing and the ones that were not... I only missed it on maybe 5 attempts in all those years. Some of thew guys were gay for sure... some were Bi and a few I am sure were straight but just missing any available pussy. I either lived off base or had private NCO quarters so it was easy to be the host... I never had any of the guys ever complain or say they regretted our time together. Had more than a few regulars no matter where I was stationed. Since I am not endowed it was always a real pleasure to find some bigger cock... not all were bigger and some were smaller but they were always good.:smile::wink:
 
I nearly got into the army. But I left after my initial 14 week training because of several reasons. But during my time there I ended up having sex with two guys. One who was openly gay (he sucked me off in the toilets and then a few days later we had sex in his bed whilst everyone else was asleep. Now that was a horny experience but keeping quiet was extremely hard!!) and on my last couple of days I sucked off a straight guy, it started completely innocently but he fell asleep on my shoulder after a stressful day. He got insanely hard and when he woke up, I kinda just went down on him and he never told me to stop. After he came he felt guilty because he had a girlfriend, but that didn't stop him from (trying to) return the favor. It wasn't a great blowie though!
 
Retired Air Force here.... Over my 22-½ years I had lots of m/m play time. Some my age all along sometimes younger and sometimes older... There was always plenty of cock to go around. Although I was never into anal I did top and bottom from time to time.... but my main objective was to be able to suck some hot cock and swallow their hot loads. I served in South East Asia as well as all over the USA and Panama too. I found it was usually easy to determine the ones that would be willing and the ones that were not... I only missed it on maybe 5 attempts in all those years. Some of thew guys were gay for sure... some were Bi and a few I am sure were straight but just missing any available pussy. I either lived off base or had private NCO quarters so it was easy to be the host... I never had any of the guys ever complain or say they regretted our time together. Had more than a few regulars no matter where I was stationed. Since I am not endowed it was always a real pleasure to find some bigger cock... not all were bigger and some were smaller but they were always good.:smile::wink:

Ok, so how do you know which ones??
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It was pretty simple after going for a few beers a few times or just eating out and talking you could usually tell from their conversation or comments to thing I would say... Some were gay some were bi and some were just straight guys that needed some relief... most of them were younger guys but a few were around my age... some were a one time thing others were very frequent .... never forced a one of them to do anything they did not want to do. all of them were of legal age and I never used my rank as a power thing... it was always when we were off duty in a casual environment.

Ok, so how do you know which ones??
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I was in the Navy for three years and never once came across a homosexual. I'm straight and wasn't looking, so maybe that was why, but not even a hint of it. I have nothing against homosexuals, but I do not like that some people have the impression that sailors on a boat are having sex orgies every night. I've had to deflect good-natured ribbing of that sort and I really don't like it.

Whew. Got that off my chest.

No sex on board hey? let me know when you hit land.