My Best Buddy Got The Bigger Cock

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How do you guys feel about your best friend having the bigger cock? Any jealousy or just fine with it, never a thought about it?

I have to say, i have never felt any bad seeing his quite bigger dick but then again he never said anything bad about my average size so we watched lots of porn together but our sizes were never a topic between us.
 
How do you guys feel about your best friend having the bigger cock? Any jealousy or just fine with it, never a thought about it?

I have to say, i have never felt any bad seeing his quite bigger dick but then again he never said anything bad about my average size so we watched lots of porn together but our sizes were never a topic between us.

GIVE IT A REST!
 
If you are straight, why do you want to know your friend's cock size or tell him what your size is?

He admits to being only 90% straight but I think his figures are somewhat off a bit? He sure is into SPH continually posting in one form or another.
 
Christ on a crutch.

This is why this place needs an SPH subforum. These never-ending "variations" on the. Exact. Same. Theme. are beyond tedious.
By the same person as well. Last count, he has over 340? threads on the same topic. All slightly varied, but all the same content, and luring in the unaware. That is a serious degree of obsessiveness.
 
My best friend is considerably smaller than me in thay department, I don't care, he doesn't care, it doesn't affect our relationship, it wouldn't matter if it happened to be the other way around.

And I know for a fact that despite being below average he is well skilled at sex and can make a girl (and a guy too) shake and scream. I witnesed it when we shared a threesome.
 
By the same person as well. Last count, he has over 340? threads on the same topic. All slightly varied, but all the same content, and luring in the unaware. That is a serious degree of obsessiveness.
340!!!!!
 
GIVE IT A REST!
Hmmm. . .

love2compare has posted 1,999 times and has received 9,273 "likes", an average of 4.7 likes per post. It would seem like some people like what he's posting. He's a popular contributor to the site. He may concentrate on smaller-guy topics, but always in a positive light, never negative or destructive.

Dave NoCal has posted 2,432 times and has received 1,408 "likes", an average of 0.6 likes per post. It would seem love2compare's contributions are appreciated 7.8 times more than his (4.7 / 0.6).

That may be because l2c has never written anything mean about anyone or tried to shut people down, and I'm sure, like us all, he doesn't find all posts interesting. A site becomes very boring when everyone speaks from the same page.
 
A site becomes very boring when everyone speaks from the same page.

It also becomes boring when the same people endlessly post the same thing regarding a narrowly defined kink or fetish. Hence a sub forum for this niche content. Because as he posts them, these threads really are not about relationship issues.
 
It also becomes boring when the same people endlessly post the same thing regarding a narrowly defined kink or fetish. Hence a sub forum for this niche content. Because as he posts them, these threads really are not about relationship issues.
In my opinion, sexual obsessions and compulsions are usually boring to everyone but their owners.
 
A site becomes very boring when everyone speaks from the same page.
Making an overly broad and absurd scenario doesn't help your position. There are enough subforums and variety to keep this site quite engaging, enough so that they can charge for premium access.

What has been suggested by more than one person, over a period of a couple of years, is to have a subforum where the people who enjoy the SPH fetish can congregate. As there are subforums for women, straight men, politics, and 30 others, perhaps a niche fetish community should also have theirs. His likes give credence that such a community exists.

See, it isn't so much the issue of the SPH itself, it is how he creates a scenario, a fiction, and draws people who do not know his history or intent into his fetish. This forum is about relationships for the most part, and people comes here expecting that, to participate either as someone with an issue, or someone who wants to help in some way or just contribute to the discussion.

When you create a fictitious story, one designed to gain sympathies and discussion purely for a fetishist's personal sexual enjoyment, then that creates an issue where the audience and helpers are actively being manipulated to please the OP. It isn't a normal discussion; it is deception. The contributors are mislead into thinking they are consoling, encouraging, and helping the OP, but the opposite is true. There is active duplicity to feed his exhibitionism, control, and sexual gratification from public humiliation.

So, there may be a stronger percentage of likes to content, but that really isn't the issue here. This is an active, obsessive individual, who gets off manipulating people.
 
So, there may be a stronger percentage of likes to content, but that really isn't the issue here. This is an active, obsessive individual, who gets off manipulating people.

wow, this broad, dynamic and controversial discussion of penis size between "straight" best buddies is really of great value for some to dig in deeper into this core issue of "friendship" and i enjoy to "catch" or provoke some new, honest and truthful answers of (apparently manipulated) real men, who report some really nice, cute, great and to be respected answers!

it is totally true, i have absolutely no bad intentions with anybody, i have a very positive attitude to my life and surprisingly for some, i have no i.n.s.e.c.u.r.i.t.y. about my own size. actually, i love my size and as you can see in many of my real comparison pictures with very thick and large penises (which btw are pure eye candy by themselves hehe) i have absolutely zero inadequacy feelings or thoughts about sph when fully erected right next to hung individuals who are naturally attracted to my dick, body, personality and mind. i am proud of my average sized penis when he is standing hard and facing 1:1 a humongous powerful real man's penis. there is zero sph involved in such holy moments - it's all about the essence of the moment of comparing two totally different cocks and life-realities of men in every little facet between the two of them, whether straight or not.
NB: also interesting how some question how much of a straight man i am haha... i mean, come on, we all compare cocks as it is the number one male sexual organ and a penis is something beautiful/exciting and each one is very special, different and dear to the beholder so comparison is spot on always even if you claim to be "straight and don't do that" for whatever reason, i don't believe you, straight liars!

i think starting a thread like this, where some (what was it again, ah right: manipulated) people can report their own, maybe first and true male comparison stories and thus open up some personal memories and insights from male-to-male relationships is of a great value for many readers, hence the many likes and interest around this rewarding topic. there is in my eyes absolutely nothing wrong about motivating people to sharing such innocent and personal anecdotes and moments. i kind of coach them to think about those moments and bring out the essence - "the gold" of penis size comparison observations. these moments are absolutely mind blowing if you think about it:

why so many times in reality "best buddies" are about the same height, stature or at least not of a much different height? i observe it so many times when on the road and checking out pairs of male best friends. why do we chose friends who are somewhat similarly "competitive" in given treats? it's probably a neat and desired feeling of a balance of "goods and treats" between good friends. you chose a friend who is somewhat equally competitive like yourself. think back to school times when you made first friends... you ask your way through and chose one who is similar to you. i.e. rarely you see best buddies who are of extremely different heights. Same thing with handsomeness, hairstyle, clothes and lifestyle, maybe even wealth and social status. The only remaining spicy thing best friends have to accept and to deal with it (if it happens but certainly there is often an interest to know at one point), is that one of either (usually haha) has a bigger penis than the other - and that is the only treat they could compare first before making friends. now this may or not disturb the often seeked balance-feelings, now one suddenly has to deal with a smaller penis than the other... maybe the sizes and growth even change over the time of being best buddies and one was bigger before than the other and so on - to be discussed... you see, nothing about sph here, just interesting and sexy best buddy dynamics at it's best in my eyes and how each deals with this.
 
I've seen love2compare's posts for years and they never imply anything about SPH. He has always expressed an appreciation for comparison without the insecurity some people are putting on him. It seems to me that the people who can't handle a conversation in which someone is saying anything other than "I have the biggest dick anyone has ever seen" are the insecure ones.

I think this topic, since it has nothing to do with SPH, and potentially could have something to do with jealousy (the name of this section is Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy) this is the most appropriate section. It would not be appropriate in an SPH forum.

I don't think an SPH section is necessarily a bad idea, though it caters to a niche that is outside the scope of this site. But if there were an SPH section, this thread wouldn't belong there.

If you want an SPH section then ask the moderators for one instead of complaining on a thread that is in a completely appropriate section.