I thought this was a support group. Very ofter it seems like we are back in the elemetary school ground at the mercy of the bullies and teacher's pets full of childish sarcasm. I thought everyone was to be respected and supported, I think it eludes to that in the rules. I guess we forget ourselves in our largeness.
If you take the time to read the note, you will see it reads a bit young by the words he uses. If you think he is sick, fine, keep it to yourself. In my neighbourhood this sort of thing went on all the time, if the ladies didn't party hard themselves they made themselves scarce so it was convenient. We got the idea from the adults and since they were so happy to party and passout we were happy to play. I never did it with my dad, he never partied, my mom was like that, but was always excited to be there with my neighbourhood friends when they took part. Though there were always other guys passed out, my neighbourhood friends would always check out their dads first and then move on to the others. It was a great kick, it was dangerous and it was a way to satisfy our curiosities and those wicked dares we inflict on each other. We were always totally freaked by it and something whispered in our ear that it was terribly wrong but we went ahead and did it anyway.
During the time we were together, after we had played with their dads, a couple of my friends were able to confess that they were playing with their dads cocks on a pretty regular basis when they were both awake and alone. It was helpful to them in some way. After our friend Jake got ahold of his dad's big one, he sort of went from always being ashamed of his dad's partying and reputation to admiration and was proud of him. He had the biggest of the other dads, we came across another fellow with one as big but he maintained his dads was bigger. His father slowed down on the partying and they would do more and more father and son things though he still partied hard at times. Attitudes changed things for them.
Perhaps witnessing the craziness as we were growing up or perhaps knowing what can happen when one is passed out has always stayed with me and kept me and a couple others on the straight and narrow.
Looking back at it we were all in agreement that it was very dangerous. We could have gotten a lot of people in trouble, even removed from our families. We were intrigued by what we saw the adult men doing and we thought it was ok for us to do it as well but there is a big difference that crazy kids don't know or even think about.
I think that just because your dad is gay it is ok to suck him off and he may think the same way. There are things at play, like respect, ethics, privacy, the law, and the list goes on. If your concerned about him being gay then you can keep it to yourself until he is comfortable telling you himself or speak to him about it remembering that he would probably be there to support you through thick and thin at the drop of a hat or just quietly live with the knowledge and consider yourself richer for it.
Anyway who knows? We are all so different and every circumstance is as well which requires different action or not.
I guess that is why there are support groups. A place where things can be viewed from many different angles, from many people, perspectives, experiences and other things of positive value.
I hope this helps, long winded as it might be.
