My dad

[SoCalBud1]

My dad never talked to me about sex or masturbating, we never compared, nothing.

I’ve seen his package really quick and he seems huge.
I’ve always been jealous of the guys dads who are open to not only talking but just showing off around each other and being free.
Would be awesome to find a straight MWM now to talk, and eventually compare and jo together. Just some dad/son bonding. I’m 26.

 

[auncut10in]

I don't think you are alone. My dad never talked to me about sex growing up. On my wedding night he asked me if I had any questions about sex. I just about started laughing. A little late for that don't you think?

I vowed to not repeat that with my son. We always talked about sex. I was very open with him. He never was shy around me. I would sometimes take him to the gym with me. He would always get rock hard showering across from me. I loved that he didn't hide it or be embarrassed by it.

I even talked to him about what to expect with growing up with a big dick. Fortunately I passed that gene on to him. I always used to tease him and tell him he should thank me every day for that big cock of his. He would look up at me and with a sweet smile, say "Thanks Dad".

Sometimes we learn what not to do from our dads.

 

[bi_todd]

I always used to tease him and tell him he should thank me every day for that big cock of his. He would look up at me and with a sweet smile, say "Thanks Dad".

Sometimes we learn what not to do from our dads.

My son is not quite old enough to appreciate such a comment, but I’ll borrow that line at some point.
Thanks.

 

[INCUBUS]

Gawd how old are you guys? Growing up the last thing I wanted to see or hear about was my dads dick or have him talk to me about my dick and or about masturbation/masturbating.
That's def not the type of Father/Son bonding we had growing up back in the day.

 

[jameslpsg]

My Dad was a great guy but was quite inhibited. He never talked to me about anything remotely related to sex or my penis. Folks got divorced as I about to be a teenager, so that was it. I had to find out everything by myself. Wish he would have been there more for me. This not about anything kinky, just about needing a Dad.

 

[bi_todd]

Gawd how old are you guys? Growing up the last thing I wanted to see or hear about was my dads dick or have him talk to me about my dick and or about masturbation/masturbating.
That's def not the type of Father/Son bonding we had growing up back in the day.

I had an awkward and sometimes distant relationship with my dad. As a result, we never talked about this stuff, either. But in an ideal world, I wish we had the trust and comfort that we could approach each other about such things. And I can appreciate how humor can be a good ice breaker for such discussions. I remember having a lot of questions. I’m trying to do better with my own son in that area - and so far, so good.

 

[jameslpsg]

I think it was harder being the oldest boy, oldest child altogether. I didn't have a big brother for help either...

 

[1059907]

Never really "bonded" with dad , I was mostly among women.

dad tried to have the sex talk in the most clean way possible and I cut him off from that as I preferred guys and he couldnt help with that haha

 

[1059907]

I think it was harder being the oldest boy, oldest child altogether. I didn't have a big brother for help either...

that's such a huge disadvantage as well, having sisters literally doesnt help also

 

[bigun8]

So I’ve shared this in other threads, but I was very fortunate as it kind of just fell in my lap. My dad was a college baseball coach my entire life and I played several sports. Being a coach, Dad was very involved in my athletic opportunities.

We were kind of forced into a few awkward conversations early on as I spent lots of time at his team practices and inside locker rooms and I was an early bloomer.

That led to plenty of interesting conversations as I couldn’t even find a jockstrap that fit when I was younger because my waist size needed a “youth” size but my cock wouldn’t fit in the pouch. I finally quit wearing jocks when I found a cup that would fit and could just go place it over my soft dick and my baseball pants would hold it in place without additional support because of my size. Not to mention having to speak with my wrestling coach and my dad about how I looked in a wrestling singlet (pretty much had to give up wrestling by junior year of high school).

Our relationship really grew closer when I played baseball for him in college. I was an adult and I had to act like it, sharing a locker room and many open showers with him and other teammates at one time. For two years, I even had to share the same locker room and showers with my dad and younger brother. Believe me, that’s some fast growing up.

Fortunately for us, we were always the most well-endowed men in the locker room. I never saw a dick bigger than the men of my family. All of us are similarly sized with no noticeable differences. My teammates used to joke on me and my brother about it constantly, calling us clones of our dad in several ways and even calling us all out when we showered together. They always used to think it was hilarious to leave two shower heads right next to each other open to force us to shower naked right next to each other.

We always took the ribbing in stride though, knowing we were the biggest. And Dad always knew how to give it back, making plenty of comments like to other players like, “you’re just jealous you still look like a little boy below the waist” and stuff like that. Fun times but it did force us to confront dick size and other sexual
Issues head on from an early age through early adulthood. But Dad handled it about the best he could and I always appreciated that. Never made it too weird or awkward and tried to joke about it as much as possible.

 

[cock30]

So I’ve shared this in other threads, but I was very fortunate as it kind of just fell in my lap. My dad was a college baseball coach my entire life and I played several sports. Being a coach, Dad was very involved in my athletic opportunities.

We were kind of forced into a few awkward conversations early on as I spent lots of time at his team practices and inside locker rooms and I was an early bloomer.

That led to plenty of interesting conversations as I couldn’t even find a jockstrap that fit when I was younger because my waist size needed a “youth” size but my cock wouldn’t fit in the pouch. I finally quit wearing jocks when I found a cup that would fit and could just go place it over my soft dick and my baseball pants would hold it in place without additional support because of my size. Not to mention having to speak with my wrestling coach and my dad about how I looked in a wrestling singlet (pretty much had to give up wrestling by junior year of high school).

Our relationship really grew closer when I played baseball for him in college. I was an adult and I had to act like it, sharing a locker room and many open showers with him and other teammates at one time. For two years, I even had to share the same locker room and showers with my dad and younger brother. Believe me, that’s some fast growing up.

Fortunately for us, we were always the most well-endowed men in the locker room. I never saw a dick bigger than the men of my family. All of us are similarly sized with no noticeable differences. My teammates used to joke on me and my brother about it constantly, calling us clones of our dad in several ways and even calling us all out when we showered together. They always used to think it was hilarious to leave two shower heads right next to each other open to force us to shower naked right next to each other.

We always took the ribbing in stride though, knowing we were the biggest. And Dad always knew how to give it back, making plenty of comments like to other players like, “you’re just jealous you still look like a little boy below the waist” and stuff like that. Fun times but it did force us to confront dick size and other sexual
Issues head on from an early age through early adulthood. But Dad handled it about the best he could and I always appreciated that. Never made it too weird or awkward and tried to joke about it as much as possible.

It’s cool you had your dad to back you up and support you leaking with the banter in the locker room. Did you and your bro ever discuss it outside the locker room? Like did you have talks about the banter about cock size and approach the subject face to face and openly discuss it or did you just sort of ignore that it had happened after.

 

[bravesoldier]

My Dad didn't talk to me about anything- sex, masturbation or anything else. He was modest about nudity. He didn't know, but I saw his soft a few times. He would crack the door when showering and his reflection could be seen perfectly in the ceramic tile on the wall. What I saw was more than impressive; a big uncut soft to die for. Thick, impressive gathered foreskin just over the tip; was extremely manly looking. I inherited his size but my foreskin was taken away at birth. Still hate that.

 

[622675]

I had the benefit of growing up in an agricultural community where there was never a mystery about sex and how it all worked. Nor was there any shortage of comments in adult male conversations about appropriate sexual behavior between men and women.

About the only time my dad made a point of discussing sexual issues with me was when something out of the ordinary was going on. I am sure we both had our own private sexual thoughts and fantasies. But that said, we talked about most everything. In many cases his comments came with a moral or practical thinking point so it wasn’t all just idol conversation.

For example, there was a guy in our small community that was sent to jail for a couple of years when he was discovered having sex (screwing) a farm animal. I got the full lecture on why that wasn’t a good idea given the likelihood for disease, consideration for the animal, moral and social stigmas. According to my dad women, in particular, would be offended by this act.

But he also made it clear that this guy was getting a bum wrap. Like he said, if everyone in the community who had done something of the same nature were to have been sent to prison, the town would be empty, and there sure wouldn’t be enough boys in high school to field a football team. And he wasn’t necessarily trying to be funny, just giving me a practical view of how things worked.

There is an interesting note about the guy who went to prison. He returned to the community, became wealthy, and didn’t appear to be shunned by other men.

In a community of 7-8 thousand, where everyone generally knew each other, it seemed there was always some renegade insurance salesman, rancher, or politician who was getting caught with someone else’s wife. My dad would have no problem letting my mom and I know about this occurrence, mainly so that we didn’t “step into it” while at school or in some other social situation.

In another example, there were five or six guys my age that hung out in my immediate neighborhood. One kid had a testicular retention (ball had not descended). The gang all knew about it and the kid had even shown us what a one-ball nut sack looked like. When I mentioned it to my dad he had no problems commenting on it, how it worked, and in listing the other people we knew (or were kin to) who had the same problem. This kind of stuff was no more than everyday talk.

It seems really strange that in today’s culture where just about everything reported on the news, shown on TV, or talked about in school, has a sexual nature, yet men, sons, and male friends have such a difficult time being open about the topic with each other.

 

[bigun8]

It’s cool you had your dad to back you up and support you leaking with the banter in the locker room. Did you and your bro ever discuss it outside the locker room? Like did you have talks about the banter about cock size and approach the subject face to face and openly discuss it or did you just sort of ignore that it had happened after.

We never talked about it much one-on-one, maybe in a joking casual conversation every once in a while, but we definitely talked about it when it was brought up by friends/teammates outside of the locker room (which it was often). We were also roommates once my brother got to college, so we were pretty close and saw each other naked regularly, at least as often as roommates/baseball teammates normally do...

 

[ronin001]

Dr. Sigmund Freud, would have lots of interesting things to say if he were reading this thread

 

[1059907]

I had the benefit of growing up in an agricultural community where there was never a mystery about sex and how it all worked. Nor was there any shortage of comments in adult male conversations about appropriate sexual behavior between men and women.

About the only time my dad made a point of discussing sexual issues with me was when something out of the ordinary was going on. I am sure we both had our own private sexual thoughts and fantasies. But that said, we talked about most everything. In many cases his comments came with a moral or practical thinking point so it wasn’t all just idol conversation.

For example, there was a guy in our small community that was sent to jail for a couple of years when he was discovered having sex (screwing) a farm animal. I got the full lecture on why that wasn’t a good idea given the likelihood for disease, consideration for the animal, moral and social stigmas. According to my dad women, in particular, would be offended by this act.

But he also made it clear that this guy was getting a bum wrap. Like he said, if everyone in the community who had done something of the same nature were to have been sent to prison, the town would be empty, and there sure wouldn’t be enough boys in high school to field a football team. And he wasn’t necessarily trying to be funny, just giving me a practical view of how things worked.

There is an interesting note about the guy who went to prison. He returned to the community, became wealthy, and didn’t appear to be shunned by other men.

In a community of 7-8 thousand, where everyone generally knew each other, it seemed there was always some renegade insurance salesman, rancher, or politician who was getting caught with someone else’s wife. My dad would have no problem letting my mom and I know about this occurrence, mainly so that we didn’t “step into it” while at school or in some other social situation.

In another example, there were five or six guys my age that hung out in my immediate neighborhood. One kid had a testicular retention (ball had not descended). The gang all knew about it and the kid had even shown us what a one-ball nut sack looked like. When I mentioned it to my dad he had no problems commenting on it, how it worked, and in listing the other people we knew (or were kin to) who had the same problem. This kind of stuff was no more than everyday talk.

It seems really strange that in today’s culture where just about everything reported on the news, shown on TV, or talked about in school, has a sexual nature, yet men, sons, and male friends have such a difficult time being open about the topic with each other.

sounds real good !

 

[Wei]

My Dad didn't talk to me about anything- sex, masturbation or anything else. He was modest about nudity. He didn't know, but I saw his soft a few times. He would crack the door when showering and his reflection could be seen perfectly in the ceramic tile on the wall. What I saw was more than impressive; a big uncut soft to die for. Thick, impressive gathered foreskin just over the tip; was extremely manly looking. I inherited his size but my foreskin was taken away at birth. Still hate that.

Hi bravesoldier, I'm sorry to hear that. I'm Chinese and have a long sheath plus a lot of overhang, coming to a very long V at the end. The other day, I walked out of the shower to the locker naked, and two young teenage boys looked at it, and for a moment I thought they were gonna laugh at either a) my dick & balls' brown color (much darker than the rest of me!) or b) their small size (yup, normal for Chinese guys, I guess, haha). But instead, they said "Wow - long anteater, haha"!! I laughed back and they told me it looks so cool. It definitely makes my shorter dick look way bigger, haha.

I can stretch my long foreskin right out to make my average/small Chinese dick look very manly indeed - more than double my average/small dick length, to be sure. Your dad would know for sure that it feels just incredible to sheath and unsheath it, especially during fast-wanks, sliding the sheath back and forwards, up and down - the head is moist and lubricated and the cockhead can pop in and out. Also, the "inner foreskin" is big and extremely sensitive, which my bf loves to kiss, lick and suck. It's an incredible feeling. My bf (also Chinese) had his cut off at birth, and tho he is loose cut with some skin folds and his frenulum is intact, he still feel he was "mutilated" tbh, and kinda resents that his loose skin can only pull half-way over his cock-head while mine is so much longer, we wank off each other.

Tbh, I think the biggest problems to have it cut off are:

a) way less sensitive;
b) always-dry cock-head;
c) circumcision scar is sometimes quite ugly;
d) you can never sheath and unsheath, in ANY situation;
d) in the public shower, it's better to keep part of your cock private instead of always on show - I don't mind other guys seeing my cock in the shower (unusual for Chinese, I know), but IMHO, my cock-head is a bit too intimate to let everyone see it;
e) your cock-head should be moist and sensitive, but totally cut off foreskin plus rubbing the head on the underwear leaves it to get dry, calloused and losing all sensitivity;
f) if most other guys have foreskins (esp. outside the US & Canada), and yours is all cut off, they will notice that for sure (especially if they don't usually unsheath in front of other guys) and they will probably laugh at you - and there isn't at all much you can do to quickly change that.

Many downsides to being cut, I guess...

Wei

 

[Wei]

It’s cool you had your dad to back you up and support you leaking with the banter in the locker room. Did you and your bro ever discuss it outside the locker room? Like did you have talks about the banter about cock size and approach the subject face to face and openly discuss it or did you just sort of ignore that it had happened after.

Most Chinese guys (including me) on our sports team not only wore shorts in the shower - we even wore briefs underneath, to stop any obvious "dick bulge", or even any outline, being visible, hehe. Any hint of that would make us feel embarrassed and ashamed, haha. Then one day, with many Chinese guys in the shower room together, two very brave Chinese guys suddenly dropped their shorts and we saw "something" revealed under their wet white briefs. One said "What the heck?", then stripped off his wet briefs too - everyone was shocked to see his intimate private area - thick black pubic hair, brown cock and balls, totally revealed and swinging for all to see, hehehe.

The other guy (his friend) then followed him and pulled off his own briefs, so we saw all of his intimate area, too - both guys totally uncut, which shocked the rest who assumed everyone else was cut except them - and then we all stripped off, haha. I got to see ALL my closest buddies' private areas for the first time ever - we always hid ourselves behind shorts and towerls, and at the urinal we always used both hands to cover our dicks - or just pissed in the corner one - and it was so interesting to check each other out. Most guys were mainly interested in just one thing - not length, size or even color - but which specific Chinese guys, and how many (if anyone), had uncut sheaths like theirs, and exactly whose was cut. I am personally uncut, with a very long V shaped sheath, which shocked my other friends, who all assumed I was cut, haha. It was very revealing, with about 70% of those Chinese guys also with hoods and 30% totally unhooded - of my five closest Chinese friends, four have a V shaped one like mine, and only one had just the always-uncovered round cock-head at the end, hahaha. Very revealing ;D

 

[1059907]

Hi bravesoldier, I'm sorry to hear that. I'm Chinese and have a long sheath plus a lot of overhang, coming to a very long V at the end. The other day, I walked out of the shower to the locker naked, and two young teenage boys looked at it, and for a moment I thought they were gonna laugh at either a) my dick & balls' brown color (much darker than the rest of me!) or b) their small size (yup, normal for Chinese guys, I guess, haha). But instead, they said "Wow - long anteater, haha"!! I laughed back and they told me it looks so cool. It definitely makes my shorter dick look way bigger, haha.

I can stretch my long foreskin right out to make my average/small Chinese dick look very manly indeed - more than double my average/small dick length, to be sure. Your dad would know for sure that it feels just incredible to sheath and unsheath it, especially during fast-wanks, sliding the sheath back and forwards, up and down - the head is moist and lubricated and the cockhead can pop in and out. Also, the "inner foreskin" is big and extremely sensitive, which my bf loves to kiss, lick and suck. It's an incredible feeling. My bf (also Chinese) had his cut off at birth, and tho he is loose cut with some skin folds and his frenulum is intact, he still feel he was "mutilated" tbh, and kinda resents that his loose skin can only pull half-way over his cock-head while mine is so much longer, we wank off each other.

Tbh, I think the biggest problems to have it cut off are:

a) way less sensitive;
b) always-dry cock-head;
c) circumcision scar is sometimes quite ugly;
d) you can never sheath and unsheath, in ANY situation;
d) in the public shower, it's better to keep part of your cock private instead of always on show - I don't mind other guys seeing my cock in the shower (unusual for Chinese, I know), but IMHO, my cock-head is a bit too intimate to let everyone see it;
e) your cock-head should be moist and sensitive, but totally cut off foreskin plus rubbing the head on the underwear leaves it to get dry, calloused and losing all sensitivity;
f) if most other guys have foreskins (esp. outside the US & Canada), and yours is all cut off, they will notice that for sure (especially if they don't usually unsheath in front of other guys) and they will probably laugh at you - and there isn't at all much you can do to quickly change that.

Many downsides to being cut, I guess...

Wei

eeks sounds bad

 

[Wei]

eeks sounds bad

Haha, so true. Are you cut/uncut?

Wei