My dad

[long_uncut]

My dad attempted to teach me about sex by telling me how the cat was going to have kittens. When I admitted to actually having sex, he hit me. I’m not sure how someone can act so clueless about such an important part of a boy’s life.

I think you assessed your situation very well...clueless, very clueless. Sorry about your experience. I hope the rest of your interaction with your dad wasn't as useless.

 

[someperson]

d) in the public shower, it's better to keep part of your cock private instead of always on show - I don't mind other guys seeing my cock in the shower (unusual for Chinese, I know), but IMHO, my cock-head is a bit too intimate to let everyone see it;
Wei

absolutely..
I would feel pretty exposed with it uncovered in front of others with it pulled back .... with it pulled forward(or covered) it does not bother me to be nude

 

[1050059]

I don't think you are alone. My dad never talked to me about sex growing up. On my wedding night he asked me if I had any questions about sex. I just about started laughing. A little late for that don't you think?

I vowed to not repeat that with my son. We always talked about sex. I was very open with him. He never was shy around me. I would sometimes take him to the gym with me. He would always get rock hard showering across from me. I loved that he didn't hide it or be embarrassed by it.

I even talked to him about what to expect with growing up with a big dick. Fortunately I passed that gene on to him. I always used to tease him and tell him he should thank me every day for that big cock of his. He would look up at me and with a sweet smile, say "Thanks Dad".

Sometimes we learn what not to do from our dads.

I hope you are kidding because, what the fuck, over.

 

[622675]

sheltered workshop: a supervised workplace for physically disabled or mentally handicapped adults.

So, why don’t you tell us about your dad? Be sure to include some of those really meaningful bonding moments.

Or perhaps you can tell us about some of the special discussions you have had with your kids. Perhaps there are some antidotes you could provide that will give TopGunAZ an opportunity to snipe at and belittle your life experiences. Hummmm~!

 

[Chrysippus]

So, why don’t you tell us about your dad? Be sure to include some of those really meaningful bonding moments.
Or perhaps you can tell us about some of the special discussions you have had with your kids. Perhaps there are some antidotes you could provide that will give TopGunAZ an opportunity to snipe at and belittle your life experiences. Hummmm~!

I ve posted previously about my dad. I did discuss masturbation with my sons and told them it is healthy, natural, normal, and nothing to be ashamed or feel guilty about and that all males capable of it do it, which is what dad told me. The other thing I told them is to insure they had the privacy to do it. In my family, a closed door means that someone needs privacy.

And you don’t, I think, mean ‘antidotes’ but rather ‘anecdotes.’.

And fucking stuff your fucking ‘hummmm’.

 

[TravisAndHisBush]

I ve posted previously about my dad. I did discuss masturbation with my sons and told them it is healthy, natural, normal, and nothing to be ashamed or feel guilty about and that all males capable of it do it, which is what dad told me. The other thing I told them is to insure they had the privacy to do it. In my family, a closed door means that someone needs privacy.

Do you really believe that all men capable of masturbating do so?

 

[Chrysippus]

Do you really believe that all men capable of masturbating do so?

Yes.

 

[622675]

I ve posted previously about my dad. I did discuss masturbation with my sons and told them it is healthy, natural, normal, and nothing to be ashamed or feel guilty about and that all males capable of it do it, which is what dad told me. The other thing I told them is to insure they had the privacy to do it. In my family, a closed door means that someone needs privacy.

And you don’t, I think, mean ‘antidotes’ but rather ‘anecdotes.’.

And fucking stuff your fucking ‘hummmm’.

Thanks for the response filled with good advice.

And actually I was going for ‘anecdotal’ rather than ‘antidotes’, but spellchecker’s replacement did give the thought an interesting twist.

 

[Chrysippus]

Thanks for the response filled with good advice.

And actually I was going for ‘anecdotal’ rather than ‘antidotes’, but spellchecker’s replacement did give the thought an interesting twist.

And still, fuck your attitude in your previous post.

 

[622675]

Love you too!

 

[1059907]

I ve posted previously about my dad. I did discuss masturbation with my sons and told them it is healthy, natural, normal, and nothing to be ashamed or feel guilty about and that all males capable of it do it, which is what dad told me. The other thing I told them is to insure they had the privacy to do it. In my family, a closed door means that someone needs privacy.

And you don’t, I think, mean ‘antidotes’ but rather ‘anecdotes.’.

And fucking stuff your fucking ‘hummmm’.

that's really cool you were really open about it to your sons, I wish my dad would be open like that in educating me on these subjects

 

[englad]

Dr. Sigmund Freud, would have lots of interesting things to say if he were reading this thread

This thread topic is like madonna's musical reincarnations. You always think that it will bow out with a graceful exit at some point, yet it keeps stirring back from the grave.

 

[999558]

uncut but funny enough when I get a boner it looks cut and most guys who've seen it think im cut

I'm exactly the same as you. I think it has something to do with the (I guess huge) difference in size between soft and hard.

 

[999558]

firstly I DO NOT Mind the Questions so feel free to ask away
- Well when I have a Boner my Foreskin tends to get pulled back and gives a look of me being cut,however I can pull the skin over my cock head during a boner and I feel the best sensations ever however when I let go it automatically goes back again giving the illusion of me being cut

- yes my cock head is moist and gets flushed in pink and sticks out

-Does it hurt during sex or when I masturbate, not really, I still orgasm quite well and I feel alll the sensations and it feels great

Well, let me correct my previous post : we're not exactly the same hahaha
I got a sizable head so the skin rolls up behind it all all times when soft unless I purposely pull it back (and then it may roll back up after a while, so I decided to simply let the head uncovered). And then when hard the skin is tight but can still cover the head with some effort.

 

[ZX.z58]

So I’ve shared this in other threads, but I was very fortunate as it kind of just fell in my lap. My dad was a college baseball coach my entire life and I played several sports. Being a coach, Dad was very involved in my athletic opportunities.

We were kind of forced into a few awkward conversations early on as I spent lots of time at his team practices and inside locker rooms and I was an early bloomer.

That led to plenty of interesting conversations as I couldn’t even find a jockstrap that fit when I was younger because my waist size needed a “youth” size but my cock wouldn’t fit in the pouch. I finally quit wearing jocks when I found a cup that would fit and could just go place it over my soft dick and my baseball pants would hold it in place without additional support because of my size. Not to mention having to speak with my wrestling coach and my dad about how I looked in a wrestling singlet (pretty much had to give up wrestling by junior year of high school).

Our relationship really grew closer when I played baseball for him in college. I was an adult and I had to act like it, sharing a locker room and many open showers with him and other teammates at one time. For two years, I even had to share the same locker room and showers with my dad and younger brother. Believe me, that’s some fast growing up.

Fortunately for us, we were always the most well-endowed men in the locker room. I never saw a dick bigger than the men of my family. All of us are similarly sized with no noticeable differences. My teammates used to joke on me and my brother about it constantly, calling us clones of our dad in several ways and even calling us all out when we showered together. They always used to think it was hilarious to leave two shower heads right next to each other open to force us to shower naked right next to each other.

We always took the ribbing in stride though, knowing we were the biggest. And Dad always knew how to give it back, making plenty of comments like to other players like, “you’re just jealous you still look like a little boy below the waist” and stuff like that. Fun times but it did force us to confront dick size and other sexual
Issues head on from an early age through early adulthood. But Dad handled it about the best he could and I always appreciated that. Never made it too weird or awkward and tried to joke about it as much as possible.

Wow that’s quite a story.

 

[circedbychoice]

I never did get "the talk" at home either. When you have no input how are you supposed to get it? I remember a guy telling me a joke and I didn't get it. I hate to admit how old I was and didn't have a clue how babies were made. I remember asking how babies were made, but was told I was to young to know.
So I had to get bits and pieces on the street. I was really in the dark about sex. I don't know how my other brothers and sisters found out. They sure didn't tell me, and if my parents didn't tell me, I doubt if they told them either.

 

[uc7dad]

I never did get "the talk" at home either. When you have no input how are you supposed to get it? I remember a guy telling me a joke and I didn't get it. I hate to admit how old I was and didn't have a clue how babies were made. I remember asking how babies were made, but was told I was to young to know.
So I had to get bits and pieces on the street. I was really in the dark about sex. I don't know how my other brothers and sisters found out. They sure didn't tell me, and if my parents didn't tell me, I doubt if they told them either.

thats to bad

 

[Gj816]

Maybe it's just me and the way I was brought up. My Dad never had "the sex talk" with me. I figured it all out on my own along with the other neighborhood guys who didn't know anything either. Other than we used to camp out in the summer and go streaking through the neighborhood after everyone went to sleep.

I agree that anyone who can masrerbate does. When your going through puberty and your dick got hard you took care of it. Sometimes several times a day. It's normal, healthy, and you won't go blind from doing it. And at that age you can shoot in under two minutes ha ha.
Never seen my Dad naked and don't want to either.

 

[1222288]

I hope you are kidding because, what the fuck, over.

I believe the point he was making was that his son isn't ashamed of his body. He is paralleling how he was raised, with how he is choosing to do the exact opposite with the family he is raising.

Oh. *psst* Young people get boners in the shower all the time, especially at puberty. Hell, even adults do. It's important that the father doesn't ridicule his child, to instill a sense of body-shame. It's a boner. So what.

 

[1222288]

My dad never talked to me about sex or masturbating, we never compared, nothing.

I learned from my mother. She was a nurse, and very open to having us learn about our bodies, and sex. It was all done fairly clinically, like "this is a penis, and this is a vagina, and this is how babies are made". She also gave us books to read, one of which was very thorough on explaining puberty, sex, masturbation, wet dreams, etc., including slang terms and pictures of the male body. I felt very informed, but I was also too shy to ask my parents -especially my dad- about sex in a conversation. I got all my intel through reading, and then later through discovering my dad's porn stash.