You do not have to use a condom unless you like the taste of latex and have a latex/rubber fetish to go along with it. <g>
If you jack off with lube use that, but just wash it off before you suck someone or get sucked. Not everyone likes lube though, I don't and I've had guys just put it on me without even asking if I wanted it on my cock, and fortunately it was a good silicone lube Eros as the water based ones just gunk up, desensitize me, and make it literally impossible for me to cum. Everyone's different though I have a friend that loves Astroglide and I think it's nasty icky stuff for j/o.
I do not shave/trim my pubes at all. That's a personal preference and again some people do it and some people do not. I personally think that untrimmed is the best, trimmed is fine, but shaved bald (besides a medical/genetic condition or wanting to be very androgynous) is just weird since adult men are supposed to have body hair.
Have fun and kiss, hold each other, rub your hard cocks together/against your ass crack, suck/pull on each other's nipples, lick each other's armpits, 69, suck each other-Watch yourself get sucked and then suck him, suck on each other's musky balls, spank each other, taste each other's flesh/mouths/spit, maybe finger him while you suck him or get fingered while you get sucked, enjoy it, give each other facials (again this is a personal preference I don't like them), and cum on each other!!!!
Put your tongue in his piss slit and have him do this to you. Suck and lick all of the good spots like the ridge of the head and the underside of the head.
Also do not forget the taint (it's between the balls but before the ass) as some men like myself go wild for any stimulation there. You may want to rim each other but do this after taking a hot shower and washing with soap and water. If you don't want to rim each other or get rimmed that's fine as it's all a personal preference and people of all genders/orientations are simply not into it at all.
You know what it's like to have a penis so even if you have never been blown or sucked anyone, you should basically know what feels good and what does not. Avoid teeth unless he's REALLY into that or having his cock/balls bitten (some people are) and he'd most likely tell you if he is, if you have to guess he's most likely not into it. Find the spots that drive him wild as they are different on every guy and keep him on the edge of orgasm/ejaculation with your mouth and hands when you jack him off. If either of you have facial hair rub your cock/balls against that!
If he/you are intact with a foreskin lick, suck, lick inside, gently nibble on, and lick the head inside of it while it's forward.
If either of you have a fleshlight (it's a silicone sleeve sex toy) those can be fun to use together as I did this with my ex with his.
Good luck!
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