what's your girth? it can be too big if she's not ready for it. What was your foreplay like? A pussy has to be red, swollen, wet and open for cock, any size, but especially big. I'm too big for my wife because she's in menopause and its a struggle to just lick her and it not be irritating; I'm nowhere near as girthy as some lpsg members or other men out there are, but its way too big for her currently. Hopefully in a month or less she can take me again, but we've been waiting for full penetration since the last time we did it, March last year. I'd trade a full inch or more in girth to just be fully inside her.
Size matters! But she might not have been totally ready or prepared for sex with not just your large cock, but any cock.
Size matters! But she might not have been totally ready or prepared for sex with not just your large cock, but any cock.
It certainly sucks when women go through menopause. My wife is in her late 60s and intercourse for her is uncomfortable. We've tried lubes, lots of foreplay, etc. but it seems that it is just not comfortable. Any fucking we do is just to accomodate me and to satisfy her own curiosity as to whether it will feel better this time. It never does. She enjoys a finger or two while I play with or lick her clit but intercourse is mostly off the table. Damn.
yah man I'd die to insert my finger in her again, that's something I haven't done in a very long time. I can get my head in and just maybe another inch, and its stretches her to the max. We had sex a month ago shortly after she started HRT and she wanted it, she pushed herself onto me, and while it was a little painful, she loved it and wanted it very badly. I was just there for the ride! But after that she hasnt' been able to handle even just over 20 seconds of me licking her vaginal opening, its too much.
She's on HRT finally after being ignored for over a two years after telling three different doctors, two endocrinologists and her ob/gyn, that she wants and needs it badly. Now she has osteoporosis and is a few years away from 50. Total medical field breakdown over this, she's finally on HRT and after 5 weeks her vagina is much more responsive, very very wet all the time now, its just the opening is extremely sensitive and irritated constantly, especially from how wet she is. Talk about counterproductive!! Once her libido comes back things should be better. Her current ob/gyn-menopause doctor (a new one, go figure) that prescribed her HRT doesn't think her vagina is really that bad off, no atrophy really, and can bounce back to our usual past of several times a week intercourse (we'll never be back to daily like we were for years and years, I can do daily or more, she dreams of daily and hopes she has the desire for something close to it). I've read anecdotally from men that their wives' pussies come back fast from the estrogen, but they don't want to have sex, about 1-2 months of HRT. Then, once the testosterone starts to really work after about 3 months or so, their wives go from not feeling like sex at all to wanting it 4 times a night, or want to have sex 4 hours straight. They demand sex all the time and their husbands are left reeling. Here's to hoping for something even 1% of that!!
Is your wife on HRT? We learned that a lot of women don't go on HRT because menopause isn't that bad for them, and the symptoms go away. But later, like with your wife's age, osteoporosis and also sexual health declines due to the now, later in life, need for HRT. We did not know this and women over 60 that we know didn't know this either. Like the drastic need women have for testosterone, its probably as if not more needed in a woman's body than estrogen. Progesterone, too, its essential. Thanks to our new doctor, we have learned a LOT about menopause because my wife has it really, really bad. They say her case is "severe" and they aren't kidding. Her hormone levels last summer were "flatlined" meaning she was so low in all three of them that they registered as "not measurable" which means 0 or close to 0. I hope you and your wife might be able to find easier ways to have sex in the near future!!!
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Just remind her that when she gives birth a babies comes out, so, no mate, not too big, just using your size as an excuse to break up.
My wife has inconsistently used HRT over the last 5-7 years. Rather than taking a dose daily, she has used every other day - when she remembers. Now, her most recent visit to the GYN convinced her to take HRT daily as she began to suffer to bone density loss and the doctor told her that HRT would (might?) help.
We had a little play time yesterday. I wanted to pleasure her so I began kissing her and playing with her nipples. She is complaining now that her breasts are sore and attributes that to the HRT (she had a history of sore breasts at certain times of the month so that seems reasonable). Her nipples stiffened (I love this!) as I played and the smell of perfume on her was inspiring me. She suddenly insisted (what man could resist that!) on sucking me so I knelt beside her head and she took my cock in her mouth. As she was sucking and playing with me, I reached down to her pussy and began to tease her clit. She responded appropriately (moaning through the cock in her mouth LOL) and then told me to "put it in". I was only about half-hard (she hadn't been sucking me very long) and when I got between her legs, I fumbled around trying to insert myself. Since I wasn't fully erect, she took my cock and tried to help get it inside her. She got the head in and since I wasn't completely hard, she continued to hold and play with it trying to make it stiffer. In so doing, she was rubbing it on her pussy moist pussy lips which felt INCREDIBLE. I exploded with the head just inside her.
So now here we are with my cum just barely inside her pussy and her clit wet from my previous teasing. I laid down next to her, slid a finger inside her pussy, and began to rub her clit with my thumb. Obviously, she was pretty sloppy inside and I pulled my finger out to wet her clit with my cum then slid my finger back in many times. I will say that in the past several months, she really seems to enjoy being finger-fucked versus dick-fucked. I guess it is just more comfortable. At any rate, the fingering resulted in a couple of breathless orgasms for her. I always figure I've done a good job when she finally reaches down and removes my hand from her pussy having reached the point of not being able to take any more stimulation.
I'm 69-years old and still have a high libido. Yesterday was an anomaly for me in terms of erection because I generally have NO trouble getting hard. It is frustrating for me and other men who are in loving relationships but whose partners have lost interest in sex due to menopause.
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HorsemanUK
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It happens, I wouldnt say too big but for some women anything over average is too much. Just move on you'll have plenty of other options.
Being too big does make girls reluctant but with patience the can be brought off nicely and with multiple cums.
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Being completely average sized, never heard that before.
I hear frequently “I can’t cum again” which is just noise to me until she cums several more times.
I hear frequently “I can’t cum again” which is just noise to me until she cums several more times.
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Evenflow618
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You are too big for her. More Foreplay is the only solution with lube if that doesnt work then your genital sizes have incompatibility.
Mine too, just a bit uncomfortable for her to take it rough
