Hey Guys,
After being a member for a couple of weeks and exploring (see my profile for picture/video links, I will post albums when the site cooperates) I decided to finally write my introduction for the site. I’m 39-year-old gay male with a Culinary Arts Degree as well as a Bachelor's in Integrated Advertising Campaigns and Marketing. This has led me to work in fine dining, restaurant management, catering, event planning, and kitchen management.
Stats:
Age: 39
Weight: 160
Height: 5’9”
Dick: 7.5” cut
Body: Average
Sexuality: Gay & out (though you don’t have to be out)
Position: Aspiring versatile/switch leaning towards bottom
Personality: Guy next door, Bro
Types: Bears, bros, clean cut, daddies, discreet, gaymers, geeks, guys next door, jocks, leather, otters, poz, neg, punks, skaters, sporty, trendy, twinks, U+
HIV Status: Positive, undetectable
Since I started being sexually active, I’ve lost count of how many people I’ve slept with. I know it’s a high number but am unsure how high, though I did some calculating and figured out my average per month in order to estimate my count and it was easily in the thousands. I used to think that was a bit extreme and that I was a raging whore compared to most but I’ve learned (through this site and other apps) that it is simply the way we are as guys. Throughout my sex life I’ve typically been the bottom. As I’ve gotten older however I have started exploring my Top side and become more versatile with hopes of becoming a true versatile/switch. I do have a bit of performance anxiety when it comes to topping, mostly because of lack of practice and experience, and would love to find a buddy that would help me to become more dominant. That said I will describe myself as a “passive top,” and I thoroughly enjoy a slightly dominant bottom that takes charge in the bedroom.
I’m into a great deal and I’m a highly sexual guy so I’m hoping to explore kinks and various fetishes in addition to having a ton of traditional sex. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve started embracing my freedom more and letting my “freak flag fly” when it comes to sex and kinks. Sites like this have helped me realize that everyone has an inner deviant and that it's ok to be open about it. I have a great deal I’d like to try and explore as I’ve not found someone willing to experiment leaving most of my kinks theoretical. I’d greatly enjoy finding a regular fuck buddy or FWB, though I’m still open to hookups and flings, that I can get comfortable and open with. Listed below is a table with my into’s and kinks/fetishes. This isn’t a complete list by any means nor are the items listed my limits. I’m open to a great deal with a little bit of discussion and explanation. I’m typically willing to try most things at least once, maybe twice, with little convincing necessary on your part. That way, if I don’t like it, I know for a fact that I don’t like it. It’s not just an opinion without experience to back it up.
Into:
Kissing
Frotting/Grinding
Jerking
Oral
Rimming
Body contact
Anal
Cum
Barebacking
Underwear (tighties, jocks, boxer briefs)
Kinks & Fetishes:
Public (sex, groping, horseplay, carplay)
Threesome/Groups
Light BDSM
Breeding
Musk
Watersports
Piercings/tattoos
Leather/gear/uniforms
Dom/sub or Alpha/beta
First time
Praise
Sloppy Seconds
Almost getting caught
I do have several known Hard limits, which are not up for debate. I reserve the right to add to the list whenever I come across something I’m not into. I also have some soft limits which I may or may not be convinced to try with communication and explanation but I make no promises as I have a pretty strong feeling I wouldn’t enjoy them. With the right person, very little is off the table.
I'm open to a variety of situations and experiences with a wide range of types. My preferences and requirements vary per person as I feel that everyone has something appealing and attractive to offer (that said I do have general guidelines for what I'm looking for). Physically I generally like guys that are more masculine; hairy and uncut are bonuses but not necessary for me to like have an interest. I could keep going but I fear leaving something out and offending someone so I’ll stop there. For anything more than a hookup I’d prefer them to be a versatile bottom at minimum as I want to enjoy both worlds if they are going to be around for a while. I find guys that are confident and know what they want to be very sexy. I prefer ages 18-55 but I am flexible as there are always exceptions to the rule.
After being a member for a couple of weeks and exploring (see my profile for picture/video links, I will post albums when the site cooperates) I decided to finally write my introduction for the site. I’m 39-year-old gay male with a Culinary Arts Degree as well as a Bachelor's in Integrated Advertising Campaigns and Marketing. This has led me to work in fine dining, restaurant management, catering, event planning, and kitchen management.
Stats:
Age: 39
Weight: 160
Height: 5’9”
Dick: 7.5” cut
Body: Average
Sexuality: Gay & out (though you don’t have to be out)
Position: Aspiring versatile/switch leaning towards bottom
Personality: Guy next door, Bro
Types: Bears, bros, clean cut, daddies, discreet, gaymers, geeks, guys next door, jocks, leather, otters, poz, neg, punks, skaters, sporty, trendy, twinks, U+
HIV Status: Positive, undetectable
Since I started being sexually active, I’ve lost count of how many people I’ve slept with. I know it’s a high number but am unsure how high, though I did some calculating and figured out my average per month in order to estimate my count and it was easily in the thousands. I used to think that was a bit extreme and that I was a raging whore compared to most but I’ve learned (through this site and other apps) that it is simply the way we are as guys. Throughout my sex life I’ve typically been the bottom. As I’ve gotten older however I have started exploring my Top side and become more versatile with hopes of becoming a true versatile/switch. I do have a bit of performance anxiety when it comes to topping, mostly because of lack of practice and experience, and would love to find a buddy that would help me to become more dominant. That said I will describe myself as a “passive top,” and I thoroughly enjoy a slightly dominant bottom that takes charge in the bedroom.
I’m into a great deal and I’m a highly sexual guy so I’m hoping to explore kinks and various fetishes in addition to having a ton of traditional sex. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve started embracing my freedom more and letting my “freak flag fly” when it comes to sex and kinks. Sites like this have helped me realize that everyone has an inner deviant and that it's ok to be open about it. I have a great deal I’d like to try and explore as I’ve not found someone willing to experiment leaving most of my kinks theoretical. I’d greatly enjoy finding a regular fuck buddy or FWB, though I’m still open to hookups and flings, that I can get comfortable and open with. Listed below is a table with my into’s and kinks/fetishes. This isn’t a complete list by any means nor are the items listed my limits. I’m open to a great deal with a little bit of discussion and explanation. I’m typically willing to try most things at least once, maybe twice, with little convincing necessary on your part. That way, if I don’t like it, I know for a fact that I don’t like it. It’s not just an opinion without experience to back it up.
Into:
Kissing
Frotting/Grinding
Jerking
Oral
Rimming
Body contact
Anal
Cum
Barebacking
Underwear (tighties, jocks, boxer briefs)
Kinks & Fetishes:
Public (sex, groping, horseplay, carplay)
Threesome/Groups
Light BDSM
Breeding
Musk
Watersports
Piercings/tattoos
Leather/gear/uniforms
Dom/sub or Alpha/beta
First time
Praise
Sloppy Seconds
Almost getting caught
I do have several known Hard limits, which are not up for debate. I reserve the right to add to the list whenever I come across something I’m not into. I also have some soft limits which I may or may not be convinced to try with communication and explanation but I make no promises as I have a pretty strong feeling I wouldn’t enjoy them. With the right person, very little is off the table.
I'm open to a variety of situations and experiences with a wide range of types. My preferences and requirements vary per person as I feel that everyone has something appealing and attractive to offer (that said I do have general guidelines for what I'm looking for). Physically I generally like guys that are more masculine; hairy and uncut are bonuses but not necessary for me to like have an interest. I could keep going but I fear leaving something out and offending someone so I’ll stop there. For anything more than a hookup I’d prefer them to be a versatile bottom at minimum as I want to enjoy both worlds if they are going to be around for a while. I find guys that are confident and know what they want to be very sexy. I prefer ages 18-55 but I am flexible as there are always exceptions to the rule.
