Hey Blagoblog,
Why all the self put downs? Your post is full of expressed negative atittudes about yourself. Don't let them become self-fulfilling! You need to talk yourself up, and have confidence in yourself - if you don't who will?
I can a picture to reference......but why be ashamed? Thick is a good thing as far as I ever knew. You're seeing it as stubby, while you might just be thinking of it as thick and good looking. Turn it around.
As far as your body - don't say it is unatractive. You have to value and take care of your body. If its only that your a few pounds overweight (and most people are), take heart, those are hardly grounds to hate yourself. Remember, confidence and good sense are more attractive to women than anything else. Care about yourself, like yourself, and start taking better care of yourself everyday, and you won't be able to help feeling better. If you'd like a simple health plan (nothing extreme) that I follow, I'd be glad to share it with you.
Why all the self put downs? Your post is full of expressed negative atittudes about yourself. Don't let them become self-fulfilling! You need to talk yourself up, and have confidence in yourself - if you don't who will?
I can a picture to reference......but why be ashamed? Thick is a good thing as far as I ever knew. You're seeing it as stubby, while you might just be thinking of it as thick and good looking. Turn it around.
As far as your body - don't say it is unatractive. You have to value and take care of your body. If its only that your a few pounds overweight (and most people are), take heart, those are hardly grounds to hate yourself. Remember, confidence and good sense are more attractive to women than anything else. Care about yourself, like yourself, and start taking better care of yourself everyday, and you won't be able to help feeling better. If you'd like a simple health plan (nothing extreme) that I follow, I'd be glad to share it with you.
