New Friend

She is craving attention and validation at a mentally unhealthy level. She is a sick individual and must be avoided my friend.

You need to stick one of the bright yellow signs that sit on a wet floor next to her. It should read: CAUTION-NUTTY BITCH.

...OB
 
Seems like you made the right choice brother. If you had gone along with it, you'd have been in shit up to knee level by now. Seems like the BF has good reasons for not getting hard. Maybe he's looking for a way out too.
 
Don't believe everything she may be telling you. Maybe she's just telling you the boyfriend can't perform when he really can and she just wants a piece on the side.

Then you're next to be lied about and lied to.

Do you really need to get laid that bad ? And a co-worker is the ultimate NO-NO !! That's why many places forbid or frown upon co-worker dating.

If you do feel the need to engage in sexual relations, let her know upfront, NO STRINGS ATTACHED ! She won't go for that. It's all a female game. Always has been always will be. Don't play along.