The first time we had sex she commented how hard I was and how she loved how big it gets. But then later she commented how also it hurts her a little. She seems to like doing blow jobs and hand jobs because of this more than going all the way. I return the favor by giving her hand jobs to. The thing I was want to go all the way to but dont get me wrong I enjoy those other things as well! What do you think I should do. Talk to her about it or just enjoy it.