I seem to have overall badluck with women. They think im a player since i have conversations alot with women, but im just being friendly. This causes them to think im trying stuff all the time. of course it could be me. Recently a coworker and i took the same bus home and when she sat down, since i knew her i sat next to her. then she said why are you sitting here there are so many seats.I try not to let stuff like that destroy what confidence i have left but, how can i be friendly. A person once said women and men cant be friends theres always something going on secretly in motives.