NYC Bar Night

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  1. BigDonkey125

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    Seeing as how most new york themed events are complete failures, might be time to start small first.

    Normal, casual night out at a bar in NYC. We can determine time and place if the interest is there. Nothing forced, just come out, grab a drink or 2 and leave either alone or with someone else only if things turn out that way. Just a way to get to know some people on here! Girls and girls both welcome.

    Any interest?
     
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    wish I still lived in NYC!
     
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    I beg to differ. Hugely. I can't tell you how many fantastic people I've met at the NY Meet and Greets (and London, and Fort Lauderdale), some of whom are among my closest friends. You ought to come to the next one and see for yourself.
     
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    you can not dance at most new york city bars so new york city suck!!!
     
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    Being that I am a DJ, New York Nightlife is my life. Therefore I can suggest a few places, small or large, that would be great for such a gathering. There are plenty of comfortable places on the east side where they're open late, have a DJ and the establishment doesn't mind if people get down and dance despite not having a cabaret license. Some even serve small food dishes.

    And Nick8 is right... it is possible to put together a good gathering of people. The Meet & Greets that were put together by the wonderful Jason_els were pretty successful and opened the stage for some of us to socialize and hang out with some very interesting people, gay or straight. It's where I also got a chance to sit on Nick8's lap for the first time as well... and as you can see, the thought still makes me as happy as a little girl. :biggrin:

    Anyhow, let me know if I can be of any assistance here.
     
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    You can sit on my lap any time. This week in fact. As I told you when I responded to your pm, I'll need any excuse to get out of here: I've got four-count-them-four 20 year old sorority sisters coming tomorrow to stay, including my niece. :yikes:
     
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    fuck being a year too young >_<
     
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    uhhhhh...can I hang at you place once the girls show? :biggrin1:
     
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    Fake ids are the best.
     
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    I'm up for it, especially with those sorority girls
     
  11. BigDonkey125

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    haha just saying that i haven't had much luck...so is anyone actually interested in this? probably would be best to make it a friday or Saturday night...
     
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    fri or sat sounds good. lemme kno man!
     
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    I was told at several establishments nor to dance there. One guy forcibly grabbed my arm and said, "Are you going to stop dancing or am I going to escort you out of here,".

    Understandbly, you don't dance at pubs either. However, the managers/owners were just rude about it in new york city.
     
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    This might be something I opt to participate in. Any clue on the details yet?
     
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    I've gotta echo my friends Nick8 and VB here regarding our Meet-N-Greets: I went to the one in NYC last Fall and it was amazing. The ones I've attended, both here in FtL and NYC, were a mix of men and women, straight and gay. It was all very LPSG brought to life.

    As to the dancing: I work in a bar down here in FtL and we are only allowed two nights per month to "encourage" dancing; otherwise we'd need an additional piece of paper called a Cabaret License, which is both expensive and difficult to get, due to "nuisance" complaints from both police and neighbors.

    Dance clubs exist here, and I know they exist in NYC as well. But at least down here they're in completely non-residential settings.

    I lived in Manhattan for a year back in my late 20s, coming down from Boston where I was raised. Boston is a very cold and reserved place (until you crack the shell); New Yorkers are, in contrast, gruff, loud and tend to have a magnified sense of their importance (until you crack the shell).

    Once the shells are cracked, you'll find both cities to be inviting and friendly. In Boston it's done by finding your "circle" and expanding it; in NYC, I found that replying in-kind only escalated things. Instead, I'd kill them with kindness: "please" and "thank you" goes a long way. :wink:
     
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    i acctually don't seem to agree at all with this no-dance policy- sure if you go to a pub or a small bar theres simply no space for any kind of dancing and no one really partakes in something like that but my friends and I go out quite frequently and we've never had a problem...just depends on the kinds of places you go to and the enviroment you're in
     
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    Since I:
    A) only ever attended one New York M&G thus far, and...
    B) the first person I saw at said M&G was jjkirkwood, and...
    C) I made the mistake of going there expecting a hookup.
    ...I'm probably best off not voicing too much opinion.
     
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    That would be enough to put anyone off. It was my first one, too. I'm glad I had the temerity to hang in there, though, because I've met some incredible people through the years. It's not a hookup venue, although there's always that possibility, I suppose. All options remain after the dinner but the purpose is to get together to socialize.
     
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    This sounds like a sausage fest so far! Great for guys who like guys but bad for me. Let me know if any men who like women or any women who like women plan to attend
     
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    i like both and would like to attend :)
     
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