I am curious about other endowed dudes' experiences with their endowment. I am fully aware that I would not want to trade places - however, there have been times when it has been a mixed blessing!
Mostly I feel lucky - I am however interested in other dudes' feelings about being blessed.
In a way, I wish I was more a grower than a shower. I hang rather large which can be awesome depending on the setting - but that angle here is basically a hassle.
There is an awareness that folks talk - and at times I wish I could just be a total surprise if that makes sense?
I am not overtly huge soft - but present. I do notice both genders doing a glimpse - obviously depends on what I am wearing both under and outer.
I feel more power being noticed by other men - while wishing I was not that present with females noticing. I feel like it can be a turn-off with a woman - a curiosity with dudes, and quite interesting with dudes I suspect are gay.
I would consider myself capable and able to enjoy both genders - my size has different consequences in either setting.
There certainly have been more negative responses by females when I start to grow ( the too big stuff) . It can be confusing tho - the wide-eyed gay dude and the fearful female.
I am really not sure if I like being "too" large - but again I would not change anything. It also depends on my mood. The need to be slow and careful at the beginning. Sometimes I wish I could just "go."
The need for slow is more with the ladies than the guys. It also depends on if I just want to fuck or feel something. There can be something neat and loving about having to be careful about inserting myself and watch her slowly accept my girth and length.
With guys, I actually would rather "watch" them try to take all of me ( there is a power tho with them being really being unable!) while with females I would rather pound - but - most of the time do not like having to be careful. Unless I care about her - then it can be really awesome to go slow, deep, gentle, etc.
There is def a difference however as it relates to how big I am between male and female. In terms of needing XL condoms that too can be hot for others or kinda like ( mainly when I start to grow) a kinda dread or a thrill.
There is no doubt however being really big overall is awesome - but I do wonder what other endowed guys think about their large size.