Open Relationship Couples

My gf and I have a similar situation ..I am in control of everything but I don't play. She has a fetish for large cocks so we let her "play" but she only performs orally....I give her 30 minutes with someone and then I get to "reclaim" my woman for the rest of the night. It works out well for us. But we haven't done any swapping/ swinging yet, although we have talked about it...would probably be a soft swap of some type tho, as she says she doesn't want to be fucked by another man.....
 
My wife has been bi since she was a young woman, and for a couple of years lived with a female partner. Not long after we met, ten years ago, we tried swinging and have been doing it regularly ever since, mainly as 4somes these days; we average about one a month. Six years ago we got married and are still very much in love. We have wonderful sex together but both need sexual variety and our open relationship works very well.

Although we usually both participate in group-sex together, she has separate time with her girlfriends and goes on holiday with one long-term one every year. We also go swinger-clubbing so she can have the occasional gang-bang. I visit gay saunas, and we both have had one-night stands when away from home on business. Our only rules are that we have safe sex and tell the other beforehand if possible, or afterwards if it's an impromptu thing like an ONS. We really enjoy lying in bed together talking about what we've been doing.
 
Ar first she was enjoying her bi side and we were having fmf. Now were enjoying other couples, where she gets her bi fun too along with a mfm. She loves giving blow jobs more than anything with the men, but has recently let my friend have anal. Even had sex with him while i wasn't there. I've had sex with our lady friend while she wasn't there. We decided that wasn't as much fun when we both get to watch/share with each other. I espically get turned on watching her give blow jobs while fucking her. When the guys cums in her mouth she instantly cums, then we switch positions if the guy stays hard and in minutes I cum. We love each other and love sharing.
 
We discovered long ago that the best way to accommodate her need for a larger cock was to have an open relationship. It has worked well for us, but its probably not for everyone.
 
My wife and I have been into the swinging/open relationship scene for many years. We have always been promiscuous and had many partners even before we met. My wife and I were often apart for many weeks and have never hid the fact that we would have a one-night-stand. However, nowadays we tend to swing with like-minded couples who we have known for a long time. Safe sex is still very important.
 
My GF and I have been swinging since 6 months after we met, 8 years ago. It was a first for each of us, and actually she was the one who suggested it after we drove past a swing club in New York City. We did soft swap later that night when we went back later that evening. We talked endlessly about it until we went to the club three weeks later. That night we did full swap, with each of having sex with another couple.

We only swing together, because each of us enjoys watching, and hearing, the other be pleasured. She likes large cocks so that is why I am on here, to find any nice, compatible guys with large cocks that want to join us for some fun.
 
My GF and I have been swinging since 6 months after we met, 8 years ago. It was a first for each of us, and actually she was the one who suggested it after we drove past a swing club in New York City. We did soft swap later that night when we went back later that evening. We talked endlessly about it until we went to the club three weeks later. That night we did full swap, with each of having sex with another couple.

We only swing together, because each of us enjoys watching, and hearing, the other be pleasured. She likes large cocks so that is why I am on here, to find any nice, compatible guys with large cocks that want to join us for some fun.[/QUOTE

My wife is a size queen too and from what I have noticed this forum is short on men who like to be with couples. Tough proposition at times to find partners for you guys as well?