Has an open marriage saved your relationship or marriage. My wife and I have different views about it. She's feels she would be more open to it but I just don't know if it's worth the test? I don't know what to do. Just not sure if I could actually handle the reality myself? Looking for advice from you guys based on your relationship. Been married 3 years. We have a 19 month old daughter and are guardians of our 10 year old nephew. Such a stressful time.