Nooooooo... it's definitely not a bad thing ! Given the right amount of time, I can have 6 to 8 orgasms, THEN squirt a nice big load. The idea behind learning to seperate your orgasm and your ejaculation, is that you get the intense feeling of the orgasm, but you don't squirt, and you won't lose your erection. You'll be able to "float" from orgasm to orgasm. Now, I don't know about you, but I'm a HEAVY precummer... and when I do this, it just drools out, and on occasion, I get a little twinge and can squirt precum.... it's only 1 spasm, but it's intense and the precum usually lands somewhere on my chest...lol LOVE this topic, BTW....