There has been a lot of psych studies lately about 'sexual orientation' being different and separate from 'sexual behavior', meaning, if you engage in sexual acts with a member of the same sex, it doesn't have to mean that you're gay or bi.
To me, orientation means 'what I'm sexually attracted to' and behavior is simply an act that is sexual in nature. For example, if I engage in a sexual act that involves a shower nozzle, it certainly doesn't mean that I'm nozzlesexual (sexually attracted to shower nozzles) nor does the act of masturbating mean that I consider myself sexually attractive.
So how about you guys? Are you comfortable performing sexual acts with a gender you're not sexually attracted to (note, this doesn't mean you're repulsed by that gender, just that you're not aroused by them)? If so, under what circumstances?
To me, orientation means 'what I'm sexually attracted to' and behavior is simply an act that is sexual in nature. For example, if I engage in a sexual act that involves a shower nozzle, it certainly doesn't mean that I'm nozzlesexual (sexually attracted to shower nozzles) nor does the act of masturbating mean that I consider myself sexually attractive.
So how about you guys? Are you comfortable performing sexual acts with a gender you're not sexually attracted to (note, this doesn't mean you're repulsed by that gender, just that you're not aroused by them)? If so, under what circumstances?