Painful intercourse

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My wife, 59, says it is painful when there's any kind of insertion in her vagina. The clit is fine so I can rub and lick her to orgasm, we just can't
have intercourse anymore. She's too embarrassed to ask a Dr, so I thought I'd check out the internet Dr's here to see if anyone might have an idea.
She's always been a little dry down there, but usually moistens up with foreplay
 
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I would go to a doctor. I have held a variety of certifications in specific medical things, but I wouldn't dispense anything but the most general and basic of advice. If I (guessing from the original post) suddenly couldn't have PiV with my partner due to pain, you can be damn sure I would go to the doctor. Embarrassment is for other things. My health is to important to avoid doing something because it is embarrassing. Granted, my health and my body aren't something I personally experience any embarrassment over.
 

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What The Fade said.

What specific kind of discomfort is she experiencing?

Going by the clinic checklist? Assuming your wife is post-menopausal. The lining of the vagina can thin with the decrease of estrogen. This causes micro-tearing and painful intercourse. The muscles of the vaginal barrel can also thin, leading less elasticity. Her pelvic muscle might not be what they use to be, causing a repositioning of the uterus which can lead to very uncomfortable contact with the cervix and bladder. She might have an infection of some sort. That's why I can't play online gyno because the list of what and why is pretty damn long.

She really needs to talk to her doctor in detail about what's going on. She can even write it down on a piece of paper to hand to her doctor if she is embarrassed to bring up the topic. Believe me, what is embarrassing to you is, like, Tuesday to your doctor.
 

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Take heed of what @Fade said hunni, your wife's health is more important than her dignity. get her to go see her doctor, if it's anything nasty then the sooner it's dealt with the better hunni X
 

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She's in the menopausal stage of her life estrogen drops lubrication goes with it. I was put into menopause at 31 due to a total hysterectomy I always need lubrication extra lubricant before but I need even more of it now than ever the vagina will begin to atrophy when you age it also make sex more painful. I would buy really good lubrication experiment with different kinds and Brands textures and viscosities until you find what she finds comfortable.