pelvic floor

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  1. psidom

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    i love a girl who does *not flex her pelvic floor, or canal.
    i love it best when she just lets it relax
    and lets go, like when you take a
    hot shower and close your eyes and almost fall asleep
    and just let the stress go.

    now all of this is great for meditative purposes,and romantic
    and or physical security feeling.

    it can even enhance your orgasm when you tap into those
    aspects of sexual sensation when fucking

    But it itself does not make you orgasm...the orgasm is a usually self-induced involuntary contraction
    that requires pelvic floor "muscle control" in order to induce your orgasm.


    am i right in this way of thinking?

    i was reading about the new smartballs and i thought they
    looked cool, and then i read they were for "tightening" and that i do not
    dig...but i figured i would ask here,

    "are the smartballs strictly for tightening so a girl has a deathgrip
    with her vagina" ?

    or does it activate her when she is aroused and tented as well?
    as in she feels a difference even though she is not flexing...

    any insight would be incredibly appreciated. ; )
    :smile:
     
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    I don't know what smartballs do, but if I just relax, I'm never going to orgasm. I need to push myself over the edge.
     
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    Some guys like when you do some don't
     
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    This is me. I have to be actively involved inside in order to orgasm. I don't think I can otherwise... Truth be told, I've never attempted it, it's unnatural. I wouldn't say it's impossible, because now that I think about it, I don't know if it is. I'm always moving, so I don't know.
     
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    My wife has smartballs and she loves 'em. It's not really for tightening, the balls stay inside from the normal closure of the introitus. She's used it during belly dancing and for work.

    A friend of ours said that hers reminded her of the muscles you use to pull in as opposed to push out.

    I've heard complaints about the string attached to the end though. Hopefully someone will speak about that.
     
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    Are smart balls like ben-wa balls? Because I've used those.
     
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    I've got a pair of duo balls that I use to help me focus on directional contractions eg. contracting/pulsing/gripping the muscles to move the balls either deeper or shallower in the vagina.
     
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    Tell us about these smartballs!

    Vaginal Deathgrip?
    Sounds heavenly :smile:
     
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    No, they're bigger. MrsR just pops them in and doesn't really do anything special except walk around. I suppose you could use them to apply kegels with if you choose to.

    YouTube - Smart Balls and how they help you
     
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    So they're kind of like squishy ben-wa balls? My ben-wa balls were a similar size to those ones, but solid (of course). The jiggly thing actually annoyed me. Not intense enough, and too frustrating.
     
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    You can push them out??? I can't push things out no matter how hard I try. I really can't. I just don't know how to make my muscles move that way. With nothing inside me, I can push out if I really concentrate, but if there's something inside, I clench. It's bizarre, because I know I SHOULD be able to do it, I just can't.
     
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    Yep! I had to so I could get the balls out, I couldn't get them out otherwise. I learned that I could push them out very far, by accident the first time:biggrin1: After that I thought... hmmm... it's amazing what you can do if you put your mind to it!
     
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    I remember that this was the reason why there was some doubt that you were female! I had my doubts, too, because I still think that's weird. :tongue:
     
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    LOL, have you ever got a dildo stuck??????:tongue:

    So cute subgirrl!

    I can keep one out by clinching for a bit, but it rather hurts to feel something pushing against the entrance really hard to get in, pushing them out is easy. The balls and things can be alittle harder.
     
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    :redface::redface::redface::redface: It still makes me blush, but I still can't bloody do it! :redface::redface::redface::redface:
     
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    No, I'd say they were pretty solid with duo-tone balls with a flexible centerpiece. Some women like them, some hate them and some don't feel them at all.

    Hah! That post you're referring to is legendary in my mind now. (It's what inspired my blog, remember?)

    Fuck no!! I hear they pay good money for those skills. I mean, if you're so inclined to start a career as a performance artist that is. Nevertheless, it's a marvelous hobby. Think ping pong balls and light switches.

    Just as an FYI, doing that against a cock stroking into you feels absolutely phenomenal!!
     
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    I'm wondering what's the utility to have theese balls inside when dancing... :confused:
     
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    She said it feels good to have it moving inside her when she bellydanced with it inside.
     
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