Premature ejaculator

[deleted817718]

i must confess that I am something of a minute man. I've always been very fast, and never found a way to hold back that worked for me. I know this isn't an uncommon thing from time to time for most men.
What's been other men and women's experience with premature ejaculators?

 

[long legs]

Happens to me most of the time.

 

[deleted817718]

Happens to me most of the time.

It's pretty much every time for me too.

 

[Billybob71]

Yes it's horrible, finally get hard to something that resembles a cock, then it's all over.

 

[sizehungry]

Has happened to me a few times , particularly after a period of abstinence . I do know that beating oneself up about it , can sometimes make it worse . There are muscles or whatever , that one can exercise in order to hold back , which is what i do , and there is of course , the mental aspect . They don't call the brain " the most important sex organ for nothing . You can learn to do anything , with time and effort .

 

[1000608]

Is there a cure for PE

 

[1000608]

Is there a cure for PE

 

[Max_Polo]

Masturbating before intercourse, stop/start strategies and fluoxetine for starters...

 

[Uncutpete]

The majority of the husbands of the wives I fuck ejaculate prematurely. It may be the most frustrating thing for the wives, who usually need enough time to get going before their orgasms begin. Often the hubs will lose sexual energy, and not really be able to enjoy any sex play after they have cum. PE causes a lot of anger for the wives, and they can get verbally abusive of the hub when I am with the couple; and it can be right in the middle of our fuck. I love providing real satisfaction for wives who have been frustrated by premature husbands for their entire marriages.

 

[deleted817718]

Masturbating before intercourse, stop/start strategies and fluoxetine for starters...

Has happened to me a few times , particularly after a period of abstinence . I do know that beating oneself up about it , can sometimes make it worse . There are muscles or whatever , that one can exercise in order to hold back , which is what i do , and there is of course , the mental aspect . They don't call the brain " the most important sex organ for nothing . You can learn to do anything , with time and effort .

I've tried it all, and I've tried and tried, but nothing works for me. I don't even try to not cum fast now, and my wife expects me to and prefers I do now.

 

[deleted817718]

The majority of the husbands of the wives I fuck ejaculate prematurely. It may be the most frustrating thing for the wives, who usually need enough time to get going before their orgasms begin. Often the hubs will lose sexual energy, and not really be able to enjoy any sex play after they have cum. PE causes a lot of anger for the wives, and they can get verbally abusive of the hub when I am with the couple; and it can be right in the middle of our fuck. I love providing real satisfaction for wives who have been frustrated by premature husbands for their entire marriages.

Good man! Guys like you give a valuable service to women like my wife.

 

[sizehungry]

I've tried it all, and I've tried and tried, but nothing works for me. I don't even try to not cum fast now, and my wife expects me to and prefers I do now.

As long as you are both happy , that's what really matters . I wish you well .

 

[rbi99]

I am definitely faster then I want to be, but by incorporating both a dildo and vibrator into our love making, my wife cums literally until she is exhausted, then she makes sure I feel real good also.

 

[hd4me2]

Viagra helped me with that issue. Don't know why though.

 

[Englishmansabroad]

Good man! Guys like you give a valuable service to women like my wife.

Is this linked to size though?.In the cuckolding scene there to be this perception that all=pe, and everything else that males sex lousy
But why shouldn't the small guy last longer/be harder/better than the big!?

 

[Htt35]

Is this linked to size though?.In the cuckolding scene there to be this perception that all=pe, and everything else that males sex lousy
But why shouldn't the small guy last longer/be harder/better than the big!?

I think it’s to do with the mind. The hornier you are then of course you are going to cum quicker

 

[hzs3fg]

Instead of trying your best to hold off orgasm, try going in with the intent that you will not come at all. And then, stick to it - don't allow yourself to come. Pull out after a half dozen strokes if necessary and focus on giving her oral instead.

Tomorrow, do the same thing; you will find that it is easier.

The next day, do the same thing. You will last longer and longer, without coming, and your partner will enjoy it more and more.

Eventually, when you decide that you are ready to come you may find it hard to do so but keep at it.

Next week, start the process over again.

Some of the most fun my wife and I have had sexually involved no orgasm at all for me and tons of them for her.

 

[Htt35]

Instead of trying your best to hold off orgasm, try going in with the intent that you will not come at all. And then, stick to it - don't allow yourself to come. Pull out after a half dozen strokes if necessary and focus on giving her oral instead.

Tomorrow, do the same thing; you will find that it is easier.

The next day, do the same thing. You will last longer and longer, without coming, and your partner will enjoy it more and more.

Eventually, when you decide that you are ready to come you may find it hard to do so but keep at it.

Next week, start the process over again.

Some of the most fun my wife and I have had sexually involved no orgasm at all for me and tons of them for her.

I have tried this and it does work

 

[Uncutpete]

Is this linked to size though?.In the cuckolding scene there to be this perception that all=pe, and everything else that males sex lousy
But why shouldn't the small guy last longer/be harder/better than the big!?

I would never use the word "all." There are some small guys who have great control.... I just don't see their wives as often as the men who can't stop themselves from ejaculating. In those couples, the frustration tends to really build, so that the wives are very happy to have me fucking them. Right now, I have three regular couples. In one of those couples, the hub can hold off cumming for a quite a while. The wife just likes really big cocks, He is small, and they both like having me join them. So when we are together the hub can stroke and watch us for a long time. The hubs in the other two couples cum very quickly and don't have the kind of libido for their wives that would satisfy them.

 

[amazzzed2]

I know this isn't always true, but it seems that quite often men with big cocks also have great stamina, produce lots of cum, and can recover quickly and cum multiple times.
Definitely true of my wife's former lover.
Unfortunately, non of things are true of me.
You big men have all the luck!!