I just joined . I just heard about pegging and was doing some research when i heard people talking about multible dry orgasm by prostate massage. Now i identify myself as being straight and have a long term gf but...maybe time i came to terms. Ive had a few guy encounters and yes i enjoyed them. I read about the super O and its got me all....well near on coming in my jocks. Now i love my gf and she knows i like some kinky shit but this super o talk has got me wound up....
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Any one got some tips......also i would love to see someone have one of these super o's. Some disscussion around aneros was what got me really going AND I WANT ONE!! Are they really that good??
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The first time it happened to me was with this really skeevy, greasy guy. I did him because my friend told me he was incredible and basically dared me to "ride the sperminator" which was what he openly called his penis. I didnt like him particularly because he was sort of an arrogant jerk and especially because he didn't shower enough for my likes. Anyway, we hooked up on the couch in my parents living room. It was not romantic and we got right down to business. He had this sharp upward bend to his cock, like a banana with an extra upward bend. His cock felt like he was not fitting inside me very well. After a while, there was this weird feeling, almost like a pressure. It built and built until it I was in total heaven, I exploded in this massive full body orgasm like nothing I had experienced in my life ever. And I had my first anal orgasm, though I didnt know what it was at the time. I was just embarrassed that I could have such an incredible orgasm with a creepy dude.
After a while I learned how it happened. Look for a G-spot vibe with a big curve, you will figure it out from there. The Aneros has never worked for me. Without a guy fucking you, you will want a vibrator.
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After a while I learned how it happened. Look for a G-spot vibe with a big curve, you will figure it out from there. The Aneros has never worked for me. Without a guy fucking you, you will want a vibrator.
Thanks Sam. Its good to get some different thoughts. I cant wait to have one(hopefully multiple) of these amazing orgasms.
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I wonder what gf would think if i got bid black dildo. Haha she would probably hog it.
Congrats on exploring! I've been thinking of checking out some of these too after talking to a friend of mine who is super into it for himself and with his gf. I wish there was less stigma/taboo around straight guys wanting to explore the prostate g-spot. If it was truly a gay thing, then wouldn't god have made straight guys without giving them prostates? ;-)
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Just experiment with toys. I find those with a big, bulbous end that will hit the prostate work best for me. Its not length, it GIRTH that makes the big ones happen for me. Everyone id different... explore and enjoy doing it. Each thing you try will give you insights on where to go.
Also, don't expect miracles or fireworks out of the box. One key element to have the big prostate O's is in your head. So much of it is tuning in your senses to a different wavelength to find the frequency to hone in on. I did anal play for many years before I discovered it!
And if you find yourself feeling like yo are going to pee all over, even though you know your bladder is empty, keep going! When that sensation crests it's amazing!
Also, don't expect miracles or fireworks out of the box. One key element to have the big prostate O's is in your head. So much of it is tuning in your senses to a different wavelength to find the frequency to hone in on. I did anal play for many years before I discovered it!
And if you find yourself feeling like yo are going to pee all over, even though you know your bladder is empty, keep going! When that sensation crests it's amazing!
My father just went through prostate cancer and had to have his removed. He had to have an insert put in for erections now. This has made me scared as I'm 51 and genetically inclined as his father also had the same. I understand that one of the ways to help prevent this is regular prostate massage and my father's doctor confirmed this as something that may help. I spoke to my wife about it and she was very happy to get involved.
Problem is even though we are using a very small vibrator built for this and it feels good, I can't relax enough to let it enter very far. I feel self counscious about her looking closely in a part of me that is not pretty. Any advice would be helpful.
Problem is even though we are using a very small vibrator built for this and it feels good, I can't relax enough to let it enter very far. I feel self counscious about her looking closely in a part of me that is not pretty. Any advice would be helpful.
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What makes you so insecure with her doing that too you? I'm sure she fully understands that it is actually pleasant for guys to have stimulation back there
Maybe my family upbringing which was so anti-gay is affecting me. I feel that I am much more open now but probably letting this affect me in the wrong way. I now understand partially societies problems in this and how it has hurt many or made them hide their feelings.
Been using improvised butt toys since my younger years. Had a girlfriend do it to me in my early 20's. She just used her finger on the gland itself. I was prepped and ready so no mess. I swear to god my orgasm originated deep in my pelvic region next door to my bladder and worked it's way to the tip of my dick. It was fantastic. I saw stars in the aftermath. Today, it's something I will not live without.
It depends on whether she's already interested in anal exploration. If she likes it up the ass herself — a dildo, your fingers or your cock — then that's a good start. If you're into porn, start watching stuff that explores the full range of anal including ways in which the girl can pleasure the guy in that way. Chances are she'll be turned on and wanting to buy a strap-on cock — and then you're on your way.
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Ahh, I can understand that up bringing. how was your wife's feeling towards it when you first brought up prostate massaging to her?
OK. To answer your question: I own three Aneros models and love them. Achieving a Super O takes more work than just sticking something in your rectum. It's really a journey of discovery (not to sound too zen) and you must be in the right state of mind and body. Some guys have been "riding" (a term Aneros users use to describe using an Aneros) for years and haven't had a Super O. What's important is good breathing, relaxing, and allowing your body to go where it will. Manage expectations and don't "try" too hard. Learning how to strengthen your PC muscle through Kegels is key, too, as that is the muscle used to move the device while it is in to stroke your prostate.
I can honestly say that I don't believe I've ever had a Super, but have had many multiple anal orgasms, which I love. After a few I feel more sexually satisfied than some of the best ejaculations I've had.
The goal of using an Aneros, or other prostate stimulator, is not ejaculation (you are actually encouraged NOT to touch your penis wile you are riding). One last point: do NOT believe the videos that are out there of guys flopping around on the bed. While leg tremors usually happen, full body seizures are not regular. Hit be back if you have more questions.
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