Question for the older guys: Does it ever end?

[iamjustme65]

Everyone is different.
Testosterone levels drop between 1% - 3% every year in your 30s.
So by the time a man reaches say 55, he has lost at least 30% of it.
But it also depends on an individuals testosterone levels from the get go.
Not every young man has the same.
But equally important to that, your sexual attractions change also. It grows.
In my 20s and 30s all I wanted was sex with women and jerk off. I didn't have an ounce of exhibitionism or cock attraction whatsoever. None.
By my mid 40s that changed. By mid 50s... changed more.

 

[goldscorpguy]

My libido is higher now then when I was 30. Wake up with morning wood 364/365 days a year.

Exactly the same here. In my 30s and 40s I was working long hours in a stressful job and had a young family to support, so my libido suffered.

Now in my 60s, working life behind me, I'm much more relaxed and confident. If my testosterone levels have dropped, I've certainly not noticed it. I think about sex most waking hours of the day, whether it's the shapely girl in lycra on the neighbouring treadmill, or planning my next fb session. I'm just riding this particular wave for as long as it lasts.

 

[techpump]

I'm mid-40s now and all I want to do is fuck, cum, and have sex with my wife like a million times a day. My libido is limitless anymore and it was never like this in my 20s or 30s. I don't know why, it just is. If it weren't for work and normal life I'd be hard all day and inventing ever new ways of getting myself off. I think about my wife 100s of times a day, and every time I'm with her I'm thinking of a million things to do with her and to her. Everywhere we go together I imagine doing her in different ways in that location. I imagine locations we haven't been yet with the idea of having sex with her in those places. I've always been extremely horny with an insane libido but lately, its just even stronger and I have a hard time figuring out why!!

 

[iamjustme65]

Exactly the same here. In my 30s and 40s I was working long hours in a stressful job and had a young family to support, so my libido suffered.

Now in my 60s, working life behind me, I'm much more relaxed and confident. If my testosterone levels have dropped, I've certainly not noticed it. I think about sex most waking hours of the day, whether it's the shapely girl in lycra on the neighbouring treadmill, or planning my next fb session. I'm just riding this particular wave for as long as it lasts.

It isn't a question if your testosterone dropped, it did. 100% of every male on the planet loses testosterone as they age.

 

[guywithbigballs]

45 here, my libido hasn't changed since i was a teenager. Always had a crazy high sex drive, with loads of erections during the day.

 

[goldscorpguy]

It isn't a question if your testosterone dropped, it did. 100% of every male on the planet loses testosterone as they age.

Yes but the decline in most men is very gradual. 75% of every male on the planet will only drop by a third going into old age. Hence you've got guys in their 80s still fathering babies. Though it also helps if you're an aging actor and your girlfriend is fifty years younger!

 

[Mike hung]

Late 50's here,
I've always been physical and active, still workout a little as well.
Married with an extremely active sex life both in our marriage and in the lifestyle community which I've been involved with most of my life, so active that way as well.
Never had a problem with erections, still wake up with morning wood, still have the same lust for sex, still bust large powerful loads and still fertile.
If there's anything in general life that's ever worried me it's losing libido as I age or some kind of ED, I can happily report so far I've never experienced any issues.

 

[brandon38]

I am 44 want more than ever so for me it increases lot more when turned 40 .

 

[mrbigdoc]

Never for me.... I have always been a horny guy with a very active libido. But as I got older, it seemed to get stronger... 70 years old now and I just want it all the time. mostly now with another guy as my wife just can't keep up.

 

[deleted814719]

I've posted previously but just to reiterate, I'm 69yo and still love ogling my wife when she's naked. I feel a spark each time I see her breasts (now sagging just a little) and her slightly trimmed pussy. I've gotten into a habit of kissing her breasts in the morning just to tease her. Her nipples swell and get erect which excites the Hell out of me. I never want to lose that attraction. Also, I really enjoy watching porn which I think somewhat fuels my horniness. I don't every want to lose the excitement and thrill of sex.

 

[AboSarieli]

I think it's about self-discipline as well. It's not like you are forced / hypnotized to focus on sex. Live a balanced life, sex has its place, you can practice it every day if you want, but if you can't focus as you would like on other activities when you're not doing sexual things I think the problem is on you. Are you doing any sports or other stuff which would attract your interest and/or energy? I refuse to believe (some) men have no choice than to be slaves to their sexual drive. Maybe have sex in the morning (or even in the morning & at the end of the day) and discipline your mind to focus on the things you want it to focus during the day. Just my view on the matter.

 

[chrisrobin]

I was in my prime in my late forties and since then the decline has been really slow,m slow enough not to really notice. The thing is use it it or lose it - and I use it.

 

[BigAl9]

@AboSarieli

I find his above comment very interesting. I am in my upper 80s. I am very active in my community, over 55. I own my house, mow my yard and have totally relandscaped replacing all previous plant materials except the lawn. I am a very active man. Most people believe me to be in my mid-60s. Sex is on my mind throughout the day. My libido is very high. Much higher that most of my friends who range from mid-40s to early 80s. I might add that most of the men have a testosterone level below 300 while mine is quite a bit above 600. Yes, sex is on my mind most of my waking hours.

 

[AboSarieli]

@AboSarieli

I find his above comment very interesting. I am in my upper 80s. I am very active in my community, over 55. I own my house, mow my yard and have totally relandscaped replacing all previous plant materials except the lawn. I am a very active man. Most people believe me to be in my mid-60s. Sex is on my mind throughout the day. My libido is very high. Much higher that most of my friends who range from mid-40s to early 80s. I might add that most of the men have a testosterone level below 300 while mine is quite a bit above 600. Yes, sex is on my mind most of my waking hours.

And that prevents you to achieve your maximum potential in other areas? By what you are saying, it seems not (or does it?). I was answering to OP's question, since it seems that, in his case, his sexual desires seem to prevent him to focus on other things as much as he would like to. And I don't think that's unavoidable, regardless of the amount of one's libido.

 

[nomju]

As a man of 58 I can say that my libido hasn't dropped, but my sex life has.
This is the result of:
a) my wife's memory. Her sex drive has fallen off a cliff. And when we do have sex she finds it uncomfortable, sometimes painful.
b) the mechanic. I can't always guarantee I'll get rock hard, if I'm tired. And although the stamina is still there, the ability to go again soon after has left me.
So, more wanking and occasionally playing away.

 

[merc41]

I've posted previously but just to reiterate, I'm 69yo and still love ogling my wife when she's naked. I feel a spark each time I see her breasts (now sagging just a little) and her slightly trimmed pussy. I've gotten into a habit of kissing her breasts in the morning just to tease her. Her nipples swell and get erect which excites the Hell out of me. I never want to lose that attraction. Also, I really enjoy watching porn which I think somewhat fuels my horniness. I don't every want to lose the excitement and thrill of sex.

Me too. Same age and same morning.ritial. Lately before we get out of bed we go thru a heavy petting session. Id ot leads to fucking fine if not no big deal. I still enjoy her tits and ass plus she gives me a few nice ball slaps