Relationship Question

[Lex]

haha, lex.

i really don't have a preference either way; as long as the person is reasonably intelligent, things should go swimmingly. although, i would like for my date to not be too much younger.

and for a person who isn't picky, i've been dateless for quite some time ... not that i'm actually looking right now or anything.

Thanks. Next time don't make me ask twice! ;-)

Not looking is the best way to find something really special. Good luck with what you're NOT doing.

 

[solong]

The attraction of someone slightly older is highest when we are younger. As we become more mature, that attraction diminishes.

I think people who need someone a bit older might show that they are not very confident in their own judgments, or that they need someone they can look up to, at least in things requiring experience. That's not a bad thing, because we all need someone who has things about them that we don't have. Otherwise, one of us is totally unnecessary.